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    PDA for first timers. What is acceptable and what is not

    Hi guys

    As we plan for our first trip, we are interested to know what is acceptable and what is not when it comes
    To the PDA.

    We don't want to be doing the wrong thing and we are not sure on the limits.

    Any comments are welcome.

    Thanks

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    I would say that pretty much anything goes at the pool and hot tub. Often security guards will stop PDA on the beach (during the day) since it is in view of passing boats and other water traffic. We have seen PDA's in other areas around the resort as well such as the small private pools, disco etc. But much more prevalent and accepted at the pool and hot tub areas

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    To add on to the above, I'd note that bodily fluids are generally frowned upon in the pool or hot tub, so if you plan to "finish" so to speak, take it somewhere more private or otherwise ensure your product doesn't end up in the water - use your imagination there, lol.

    Also, there are cabanas throughout the resort, and we've seen pretty much everything going on in those, day or night.

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    Everything is allowed, most places - except the dining hall and kitchen and at certain times on the beach. Just do it! You can even announce and call for people to watch - if that gives you added pep. Yes, no bodily fluid extraction - you can't prevent saliva though, in public utilities.
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    I will also add that apparently after the new security started they also no longer allow PDA's at the bar on the nude side. We were asked to stop last year, but when we moved it a few feet away they said that was fine.
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    Thanks guys, Sorry if I got this mixed up, but I have since found out there is also PDS.

    I take it that the comments also relate to the PDS side.

    Sounds like a fun trip we are going to have.
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    You'll have a blast. I remember jumping into the water just off the beach with the wife shortly after we arrived to the resort on day one. We walked out to about waist high water, dipped down a bit and went at it. We thought we were not-so-discreet and a bit risque - sure that others were watching us. When we finished, we looked around expecting eyes on us. In fact, everyone was having their own fun, not paying much attention to us and it ended up being just a wonderful time to ourselves. The risk made it exciting, but no one stopped us or thought ill of us. Lots of fun.

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    Our first night we were on beach and we had a couple thst was Walken buy stoped and watched us . The second day we on prude side beach enjoying sun . Wife got on me and started given bj and the other 2 couples that were their the wives started doing the same . And we were all being watched buy people from sandels resort .. the place had so much energy and excitement brings couples closer together . Have fun that's what ur their for. When ur on a beach enjoying the sun and have a drink in hand and bj given all by noon that's a vacation and enjoying life . .

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    By noon? Now that's just lazy.
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    Don't worry. Pretty much anything goes. Just have fun. This is a placebto be free.

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    Just had to start pacen my self for the 8 days

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    Quote Originally Posted by bobby45 View Post
    Don't worry. Pretty much anything goes. Just have fun. This is a placebto be free.
    We are first timers but in full disclosure, we have not booked yet. Are threesomes in public tolerated? Seems like anything goes but just checking.

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