I think this issue has had some closure and thank goodness. For the record I would never say anything to anyone, especially a girl that would hurt their feelings. That's not even a Hedo thing. It's a life thing.
I think this issue has had some closure and thank goodness. For the record I would never say anything to anyone, especially a girl that would hurt their feelings. That's not even a Hedo thing. It's a life thing.
QUOTE " intent was just to point out the fact that it is relatively easy to find a willing male participate for a mfm." Un-quote
I am in now....IS IT ? I think this is whole new ball game (excuse the pun)
Unless there is a I like to use the word "selection" of single guys, I thought I was/am the only woman allows her guy to pop off to do a MFM ? Other wise so many seem to have the rule,
we cum as a pair.
That's ok, (not looking for a row) Just saying, seems difficult to invite Mrs, to metaphorically butt out, while I take your fella off....She just wont. So bring on the singles, or the more broad minded woman.....God my mans so lucky. Soo x
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April 9th-23rd
Actually,Ian is one of Many lucky guys I have met at Hedo,just sayin',and not just because he has "free reign" etc.It's been my good fortune to meet plenty of lovely ladies;each of which is just so damn special in their own way.It's been the best experience of my life,no kidding,and just killing me to know I won't be there next April!
Hold on guys, this is a WIFE MFM thread eh...lets do that please.
Or any permutation of, been on the lifestyle scene a few years and in a few (loads) of weird/odd/fun/sexy etc situation's but I thought it was a fantasy of some men FFM and .....some ladies MMF yet, why is it such a tricky one to put together? Who do we blame in the majority the over protective males, or the reluctant ladies?
Personally speaking Ian and I have sunbathed, drank in bar, or watched TV alone so as to accommodate the desires of the other. But so many times this event has not been able to come to fruition due to the over protective, or selfish other..Are you one of those? If not please wear a flashing bulb on your head x
April 9th-23rd
Lol this thread is interesting, we just want to have a good time and try something new to us. I guess we will just get to Hedo and see how it all cums out.
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Hedo will be exactly what you want it to be and no one will bat an eye. You can of cause have quite times, or (as we have seen) dress as a mermaid get dragged to the tree on the beach hung upside down approx a meter off the ground while a circle of guys put there c**k in your mouth !
Just like to say, if no one wants to offer their thoughts on the MFM,/FFM, which is totally what I expected we make great dinner guest's. Boy do we have stories, and if that doesn't get your juices flowing, we are from the UK so I talk like the Queen....x
April 9th-23rd
I Absolutely love this!!! Damn near spit my coffee out! So wish we were there the same time as you , it would be a blast to hang out!
I have to wonder if men aren't quite as comfortable with the mfm concept as they would like to lead you to believe.... or women would get the opportunity more often.
I suspect a girl and two alpha's would be a complicated scenario as the jockeying for position may be a problem. Haven't done either, but I would be more apt to watch without participation and know I would be allowed the same opportunity with two girls at another time, to feel like our relationship was a level playing field, so to speak.
If the husband participates along with the guest is that an MFM or has to be two strangers?
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I guess I just always assumed the husband/boyfriend was naturally one of the M's in MFM, or is that, or two strangers both just as common? I am sure any and all combinations are someone's fantasy. Think we'll just aim for the good old full swap. Baby steps lol.
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