Wife MFM

**Sun4fun75** · 09-21-2016, 02:21 PM

So we are contemplating going back to hedo this year. Both my wife and I have had the fantasy of MFM. How likely would it be to accomplish this at hedo. The one catch is that she wants a white or Hispanic male. We didn't see many Hispanics last year. Should we try to go to desire instead?

**HedoJoe** · 09-21-2016, 02:26 PM

You won't find any single guys at Desire.

**Danny Boy** · 09-21-2016, 02:27 PM

Not that i have years of experience in the lifestyle but in my short history it seems to me that MFM is probably about the easiest thing you can possibly put together at Hedo. I honestly cant imagine it would take more than 2 hous hanging out in the pool and asking around...lol.

**mac_r_a** · 09-21-2016, 02:48 PM

If you are open about what you want I suspect it wouldn't take you long. We have a few single men coming with our group and I personally know them and they are great guys who would probably be more then happy to help you out if you guys click

**NatAndRob** · 09-21-2016, 03:10 PM

I concur with Danny Boy - setting up a MFM shouldn't take much effort at all. There are typically a fair number of willing single guys you could interview for the job, so to speak.

-R

**David & Qian** · 09-21-2016, 09:48 PM

Originally Posted by Danny Boy

Not that i have years of experience in the lifestyle but in my short history it seems to me that MFM is probably about the easiest think you can possibly put together at Hedo. I honestly cant imagine it would take more than 2 hous hanging out in the pool and asking around...lol.

Made us laugh! Although 2 hours seems a bit long....

**jshell** · 09-22-2016, 05:05 AM

Originally Posted by mac_r_a

If you are open about what you want I suspect it wouldn't take you long. We have a few single men coming with our group and I personally know them and they are great guys who would probably be more then happy to help you out if you guys click

LOL. There is no need to "click" where guys are concerned.

**mrcaj** · 09-22-2016, 11:08 AM

And you probably aren't limited to single guys. There are probably a fair number of married guys who would be allowed to play.

**jshell** · 09-22-2016, 01:56 PM

A cock hunt at Hedo is like an Empire State Building hunt in New York...

**nudistjunkie** · 09-22-2016, 02:32 PM

Originally Posted by jshell

a cock hunt at hedo is like an empire state building hunt in new york...

lmfao

**happy2us** · 09-22-2016, 03:56 PM

Originally Posted by jshell

LOL. There is no need to "click" where guys are concerned.

That couldn't be less true with me ('da he). We both are selective and have to truly click in any and every situation for something to happen.

**Danny Boy** · 09-22-2016, 04:21 PM

Originally Posted by happy2us

That couldn't be less true with me ('da he). We both are selective and have to truly click in any and every situation for something to happen.

Same, before we got into the lifestyle we thought hot bods would be the only requirement. quickly realized we have to like the people first, I guess we are not as shallow as we thought...lol

**foxxyandhound** · 09-22-2016, 08:19 PM

if we don't click with a couple of a single we don't play.... we learn that along time ago... now 23 years later we are still loving it... but still got to click.

**mark69s** · 09-22-2016, 10:24 PM

Interesting conversation!!!

**jshell** · 09-23-2016, 07:49 AM

My point was finding a guy to join in on a MFM wouldn't require "clicking" as far as "HE" was concerned, other than attraction. A guy will only turn down sex if it's a real barker he is asked to have sex with. A couple seeking a 2nd male may need a spark to proceed, but the only spark the 2nd male needs is to hear, Hey, you wanna have sex with my girl. That doesn't make him shallow, it makes him a guy.