We agree. The playroom is for those who want to play and maybe join in. Just to go in and watch a show is a turn off for most of us in there to have fun!!
We agree. The playroom is for those who want to play and maybe join in. Just to go in and watch a show is a turn off for most of us in there to have fun!!
Oh, it'll be consensual, no worries there . We like to play hard at times and we didn't know how much was ok in the playroom. I've read no bdsm allowed and then others that say some is ok. Just trying to figure out what is acceptable since this will be our first trip. We are trying to determine if we explicitly need to book a bdsm event or if bdsm is acceptable anytime and to what degree at the resort.
It's appears as though the intent of the playroom as established by the resort is for both play and watch. There should be nothing wrong with a couple going in to watch. For couples that do not like to be seen, you have the privacy of our own room.
We often go to lifestyle clubs and have never heard of a rule where you have to play when in the playroom. The backrooms ate generally a mix of people playing and those wandering and satisfying their voyeuristic fantasies.
Play rooms are designed to be an open environment for play and watch.
I am not sure why a couple who does not want to be in the open and be seen would not simply go back to their room!
As long as it is couples going in, laying down and enjoying the sights and sounds from the playing field, single people would only add to the creepy factor, and lets face it a threesome is not a single person...............
we went in a few times. there were never more than 10-15 people in at any giving point. hopefully others have found it more packed as the hot tub still had much more going on it seemed.
We went a few weeks ago. My wife was very nervous about the whole thing and were given a tour by one of the super nice female EC's. Needless to say, that really opened the door and we spent all three nights there having fun and enjoying the sights and sounds. It was truly awesome! A must do at hedo.
CK is really nervous about the playroom, too. But she likes the idea of playing when someone else can see us, so ok even if we don't know anyone there to join.
yes for sure
If you are in the playroom is it a given that you are wanting to play. It seems awkward to be asking to play in that sexy environment instead it seems like you just kind of know another couple is open to play by body language and positioning.
I realize you don't just go for it without approval but it seems like light touching of the hand leg or arm is a good way to see if more is ok.
We like the idea of a random orgy of bodies just intertwined what are others experiences in the play room
Just because you and your significant other is in the playroom does not mean you want to play with others. You may just want to enjoy each other.
The play room seems like a good introductory step for non swingers or want to be's, as well as swingers. Thinking that there is a bit of voyeurism and exhibitionism in us all. Therefore, respectful watching should not pose a problem for anyone. If you do not want to be watched, you need to take it to your room.
That was one thing we wondered. How to let people know we're interested in playing wth them in the room without being overt or making them uncomfortable. And is it ok to get on the same mattress with another couple even if we may not be ready to play with them?
Although this kind of thing works fine in private, I wouldn't recommend it for a more public place like a playroom... It's just bad ediquite.
I assume of course your referring to some other couple whom you don't know yet or don't know well enough to know what they're interested in...
Touching someone, even if it's only on the hand or leg (while they're being intimate) forces them to say something to stop you or push your hand away. This can really put a damper on some peoples evening. Some people are fine with it, but not everyone... Particularly some wife who's already nervous about being there in the first place and is too shy to say no to someone.
Offering an invitation (either verbally or with visual signs) is a much safer/respectful approach. If they're interested, they'll join you... If they're not, you haven't creeped anyone out.
Clear communication without making assumptions is very important for avoiding drama... Even if it seems a little awkward sometimes. Better safe than sorry.
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I would be willing to bet that a large percentage of the couples in the playroom are there for each other only.To watch and be seen only.Somewhere I got the impression that most group play going on in the playroom was all prearranged between couples who were already familiar and consensual with each other.True or false?
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