Pulled the trigger-- June 9-14th.... first timers.

**NewYorkAl** · 03-14-2016, 05:17 PM

Well, after discussion with my wife... we've decided to expand our horizons and give the resort a try. We've talked about swinging in the past, but never acted on it. I suppose this will be a test for both of us-- and healthy. After getting an agent rate, I ran it by her and she's into it. I showed her detailed descriptions of the resort and that we'll see some pretty cool stuff going on... she is still on board! I have been dropping hints that I won't mind her getting double-teamed... well, not hints... basically saying it. LOL.

I feel so lucky that she's open to this.... but, any suggestions in how to adequately prepare her for this resort? I am a bit nervous.... I just want her to be happy and not freak out if she feels uncomfortable.

Thanks guys and I joined this forum because it's definitely more open and informative than Trip Advisor.

Cheers,

Al

P.S. Our of curiosity, what's the ratio for European guests? I think that would put her a bit at ease, as she's Russian.....

**Ontario** · 03-14-2016, 06:05 PM

Best advice is be yourself, go at your pace, be respectful and have Fun...... We have all been newbies, and abit nervous.. That will go away after you get to the nude pool and order your first drink...

**NewYorkAl** · 03-14-2016, 07:02 PM

Thanks, ONT... appreciate the advice. Will heed it.

**Peemoney** · 03-14-2016, 07:33 PM

Get naked, get a drink, smile, and introduce yourself.

**arms2365** · 03-14-2016, 08:52 PM

agree, get naked right away, be yourself, don't push for things to happen they just do, and make sure you have discussed limits
by the look of your wife's avatar you will have no problem meeting people

**takemetonegril** · 03-14-2016, 08:58 PM

There have been some Russian's there the past two years in late April, so hopefully there will be some of your wife's country folk on site when you go.
Cheers

**NewYorkAl** · 03-15-2016, 06:23 AM

Yeah, I am guessing alcohol should take the edge off. Thanks for the respond!

**NewYorkAl** · 03-15-2016, 06:24 AM

Cool, sounds promising! Just the ruble is in the toilet at the moment... not expecting Russians, but hoping for someone she can have things in common. Thanks for looking out!!

**NewYorkAl** · 03-15-2016, 06:25 AM

Originally Posted by arms2365

agree, get naked right away, be yourself, don't push for things to happen they just do, and make sure you have discussed limits
by the look of your wife's avatar you will have no problem meeting people

Thanks for the compliment, she is quite the piece of ass. Proud of her. :-)