Thinking of going to Hedo (solo guy)

[scottb80]

Some info

I have some long awaited vacation time coming up in May (around Memorial Day) and I was thinking of taking that vacation in Hedo. I am a 35 year old single guy, mainly looking for R&R, and some fun activites to take my mind off of everything. I like the idea of Hedo, because it's clothing optional (something I've always wanted to try), it's adults only (I don't want to be around a bunch of kids), and I really like Jamaica (I was there a few times years ago and I've wanted to go back). Also the all inclusive aspect is very appealing (ie all the booze and food).

I guess I'm just wondering if Hedo would be a good choice? I've heard mixed things about solo guys being welcomed or shunned.

[SanDiegoDave]

I'm leaving for my 10th Hedo trip tomorrow. Nine of them have been as a solo male. I have always had a great time with great people. But a great time doesn't mean I spent the entire time having sex. Be friendly. Be fun. Go to the nude side and enjoy the party. If you are respectful and engaging, you will make great friends.

There are other threads on here that address single guy topics. Research those and continue to ask questions. The answers will flow fast and furious on here.

Good luck with your travel plans.

BigDave

[scottb80]

I'm leaving for my 10th Hedo trip tomorrow. Nine of them have been as a solo male. I have always had a great time with great people. But a great time doesn't mean I spent the entire time having sex. Be friendly. Be fun. Go to the nude side and enjoy the party. If you are respectful and engaging, you will make great friends.

There are other threads on here that address single guy topics. Research those and continue to ask questions. The answers will flow fast and furious on here.

Good luck with your travel plans.

BigDave

Thanks for the reply and info. Making friends, partying, and having fun sounds great to me.

[takemetonegril]

If you know you are a nice guy, can be respectful of others and have no expectations, just go, don't let anything discourage you or dissuade you. Many singles guys are on this forum go year in and year out and have a ball. I've been both ways and each has it's benefits, but I like single just fine.

Cheers

[NWWACouple]

Looks like you've been on the forums/thinking about it for almost 5 years. Time to pull the trigger and try it out! Like Dave says, there is lots of good information on the "single guy" topic here.

[scottb80]

Thanks everyone for the replies and advice. I've decided to go ahead and take the plunge. I'm booked for May 9 thru May 14, and I am very excited.

[sunandsea]

All great advice. Respect is key. Go with no other agenda other than to recharge the batteries and have fun. You're in a tropical resort, great fitness center, pools, ocean, and some of most awesome people you will ever meet.

[scottb80]

All great advice. Respect is key. Go with no other agenda other than to recharge the batteries and have fun. You're in a tropical resort, great fitness center, pools, ocean, and some of most awesome people you will ever meet.

Sounds like what the doctor ordered.

[foxxyandhound]

just stop thinking about it and book it.... just do it....

[scottb80]

just stop thinking about it and book it.... just do it....

I went ahead and booked it. Can't wait.

[foxxyandhound]

you will love it.....

[scottb80]

you will love it.....

I'm already counting the days.

[Ontario]

Just be yourself and respectful, and you will be in paradise..... Trust us this is one of many trips!!!

[takemetonegril]

get there, get nekkid immediately, and offer to get everyone at the nude pool a round, 10 instant friends, a day of that, 100 instant friends and you pass the "drink bitch" hat off to someone else.

Cheers

[stevebusa]

there is a good article on here single male 101 that is great. Couples are like 85% of the hedo II population but singles are welcome. In fact some of is couples are actually looking for a single male. My wife does not relish the thought of me being with another woman, but I would like to see her with another guy, single guys that are respectful can have lots of fun.