Originally Posted by
stuccoman
I think there are more bi guys than you think at Hedo but I think it is kept in the closet. It is strange really how people in the lifestyle rejoice in woman being bi but throw up in their mouth when a guy is. We both are very accepting and open minded to everyone and their lifestyle.
I am always fascinated in studying people and why they do what they do and in this fascination I noticed that people in the BDSM lifestyle are much more open to bi males.
We were at a friends birthday party who is heavy into BDSM and we were a round peg in a square hole at the party but us being non assholes we got along fine with everyone and they enjoyed answering all my questions and filling my curiosity.
Their major question for me was asking about Gay or Bi phobia towards men, they couldnt understand how most " swingers " have such a double standard.....
We joined the lifestyle after our first visit to Hedo due to all the open minded and nonjudgmental people we met. It was refreshing to talk to so many like minded people and it felt like no one judged you no mater what you thought. But I do believe the BDSM community is much more open minded and accepting no matter what your kink is....
So in my opinion if you want to go for a week where you should feel most comfortable, I would recommend going a week that is hosted by a BDSM group...It shouldn't be that way, you should be able to go any time without judgment, but sadly I dont think you can
Cheers
Geoff and Chantal
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