Listen to Lagnia, as they have laid down some very good wisdom on this subject. Having been in the LS for over 5 years now, my wife and I have met many couples who did not survive long in the LS. We've also met many who have. The key, it seems to us, is communication, which builds trust, as well as setting boundaries that are comfortable now - even if you abandon them later - and never to push things either one of you are not ready for. In the beginning, we didn't do full swap. Now we do. We didn't do single guys for the first three years because I thought that might lead to jealousy issues for me, but once I felt comfortable and we tried it out, we both liked it. Whatever you do, communicate, communicate, communicate. Then communicate more. What made our first Hedo trip so spectacular, besides the phenomenal sex with hot people, was the amount of time the Mrs. and I spent connecting with one another!
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