We've had a great time since we got introduced to Hedonism in 2004. Since then it has been a slow and pleasurable journey. From getting naked to touching and being touched to soft swinging, oral and then hard swinging and doing it with 3 men at a time, each has been a challenge as well as a pleasant experience to savor and has taken its time. I am now fairly experienced in MFM or even MMfMM and have had a few offers for FMF that I have not taken up. I am curious and now ready to try. Being my usual slow self I would like to initiated gradually and not be forced into reciprocity with the F while I am open to enjoy the attention from F opening myself to giving all my attention to the M. Is this expecting to much from a couple , specially when my man will not participate? Every offer that I politely declined for FmF is because I thought it was too selfish to have it my way - F on me, me on M and my man not participating. Is this to odd and complicated?
What are other's take on this?
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