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    Hedo, Desire or Desire Pearl for first time resort

    Hello everyone
    my wife and me are planning our first trip to a "swingers" (adults) resort. We have been in the lifestyle for about a year and would love to experience a couple of days at one of these resorts: Hedo II, Desire or Desire Pearl.
    We would love to hear your recommendations and suggestions as to which resort to choose for our first time adult resort traveling experience
    We are a both beginning our 30's by the way
    Thanks to all!

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    Take a good read through these forums, you'll find this topic discussed a lot. It's mainly a pro-Hedo crowd here so you'll find most of us will tell you to go there. IMHO Hedo is by far the most fun, friendly, and welcoming of the three, a total party atmosphere. Desire RM is a beautiful resort but much quieter and has an overall aloofness to it. Desire Pearl is even quieter, older crowd and frankly, a little boring. YMMV.

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    My perspective is that you will find "nicer" physical plant at some other resorts but as Cdn Cpl has indicated,you are not going to find a friendlier more outgoing bunch than at Hedo.Your Hedo experience will depend on your willingness to engage others in conversation etc.Once you do,you will find people to hang out with and party with and don't be surprised if you make some life long friendships;particularly if you go with a compatible group.Whoever came up with the annual group concept was truly a marketing genius and did us all a huge favor!

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    We have only been to Desire RM, so we cannot bring a broad base of experience to your question. But I can tell you that if you are looking to play while on your trip, you may not get your wish at the Desire resorts. We went to Desire RM twice; once, the play atmosphere was decent, and the other time it was downright sleepy! BTW, we can confirm what Cdn_cpl said about Desire Pearl being more sleepy than Desire RM- we met several couples at DRM last October who said they'd started their vacation at Pearl, and transferred over to DRM because Pearl was so sleepy.

    When we use our limited vacation dollars and days to go to a premium-priced lifestyle resort, we want to maximize our chances of meeting other couples who want to play! So from here on out, we will probable not go back to Desire RM unless we know that we're going on a lifestyle takeover week, or have some specific reason to believe that the place is mostly lifestyle couples rather than non-playing couples.

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    Just got back last night from our 9th trip to Hedo 2 last night. Every time we go, we have a great time and meet a bunch of awesome people. It is not five star, but they have made huge improvements since the new ownership, and continue to upgrade the property. The staff there is top notch. Lots of good info on this site. If you have specific questions, just ask, and people will answer. Look at the Hedo website, click on events, and check out the groups going when you want to go. We enjoy making new friends and hanging out with great people from all over, so if that is what you are looking for, go to Hedo. If you go with a group, there is normally a group rate, plus you automatically have friends. Go for it!

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    Thank you everyone for your replies and suggestions! We definitely want to play and meet new couples, so it looks like Hedo is the correct option. Another question to all of you that have been there several times, is there a dead week or dead time of the year I should avoid?? Thanks again

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