Hello!
My husband and I are celebrating our 10 year wedding anniversary and we're in need of advice!
We have a 6 year old son and when we leave him, we like to steer clear of children (aka: guilt for leaving him.)
While searching online for "couples only" resorts, we came across one of the desire resorts. Holy shit. I never knew anything like this existed. Well, I take that back. I remember while on vacation in Jamaica with my ultra conservative parents...they made various comments about a resort called Hedonism and how utterly nasty it was. Well. Fast forward 15 years, and their little girl is super interested in learning more about it.
My husband and I have a very healthy sex life... But in the last 3 days while searching for more info on this topic...we've had sex 3 days in a row. I can't say that's happened since we were on vacation last year.
So...here's my dilemma... We've been fortunate enough to have visited some very amazing beaches. We went to Tahiti and stayed in an over water bungalow for our honeymoon. We'll never be able to top that...so we were looking in to some of our favorite beaches...and Mexico has some of the best...
I absolutely love the idea of going topless. I even like the idea of the whole exibitionist thing. It makes me horny just thinking about it. BUT...we're not sure about the whole "totally nude" thing. And...we're not down with the whole swinging thing. We're also not really big on partying and being super social with strangers...unless we're very drunk...which I'm afraid will lead to decisions made in the heat of the moment...which will lead to things that can never be erased from our memories...which leads to us taking a totally beautiful and healthy marriage and turning it in to something I'm totally afraid to even imagine.
I'm gonna say something right now bc I have the gift of anninimity...but I hope I don't offend anyone...
I'm afraid we'll book somewhere hoping for a little sexy fun...and end up finding a bunch of 55+ that are trying to revive their sex lives or 22+ strippers built like brick shit houses looking to show off their bodies while partying it up. I'm scared it's going to feel too desperate and too skanky. I'm also scared I'd like it
We're looking to book for this June (2015) so any advice would be greatly appreciated!
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