Hedo questions...

[Strange_Ways]

Good afternoon all!

So my fiancé and I are planning our honeymoon. Hedo has been brought up several times.. However, we are both "reserved" but curious folks. Not in the swinging lifestyle, but if it happens around us, we won't judge. Everyone deserves to have fun in their own way.We've been doing our research and keep getting mixed reviews about this place. So basically I've come here to ask for input from folks who've truly been there. I know the first day will be tough to "bare all" but nothing a drink and a spliff can't help. We are more curious about the sexual side of this place. For instance, say we go fool around behind some bushes.. Will we be arrested? Will other people come over and watch? We aren't exhibitionist,but do like the "risky" side of things. We've done things in parks, but knew no one around..empty movie theaters( except for the people waaaay down in front, who were oblivious to us) are there "creepers" who hang around? Weve never been to a place like this, but are extremely interested in it. Basically what is the open sex policy? I guess there are hammocks around, is it okay to get oral while laying in it? All reviews say it is sexual, but how sexual? Some John Holmes fella isn't going to come up to us and rest his giant friend on one of our shoulders is he? Lol beach sexy okay? People going to watch? Do people leave doors open for voyerism or is not that kind of place? What should we expect to see while walking the beach? Lots of T and A and penis? Lol I'm not overly endowed, if it's cold .. Anyone feel like you're getting judge about size? Lol basically I'm asking every fear you had, is it what you feared before arriving ? Any insight would be great! We are thinking of staying at Couples Negril also, but the sexual flavor keeps brining is to Hedo...

I'm a ganja smoker also, is it safe to buy there? Where can you smoke?

Love some serious truthful feedback! Thank you kindly ...

[whatevva]

LOL..no you will not be arrested for fooling around behind bushes(probably best to stay away from the bushes due to ants and fleas), as long as you're on the nude side. Will people watch? maybe, if you do things near them.
There are occasional creepers that may come close to stare but honestly, that's extremely rare, and usually a courteous "do you mind?" will get them to leave.
Depending on the week, there is random open sex near or in the pool, but rarely as you're walking down the beach. It's Hedo though, so always expect the unexpected
There is something known as the open door policy, where, if you leave your door open and are getting things going on the bed, someone might stop and ask if they can come in, which could be to watch or join in...depends on the week.
No one is going to judge you by size, age, weight, or anything other than your ability to carry on a conversation.
Ganja is everywhere and best to approach someone you see smoking, and ask them where to go, rather than randomly asking people where to buy it. Usually there are people trying to give it away on Friday's before they leave. After a couple trips you'll know exactly how to acquire it. You can't smoke in the rooms any more, but we smoke it right outside the room door, or on the nude beach.

[jssnacks]

Not your normal honeymoon resort. However you will not find a more fun and sexually charged atmosphere.

[Tryinit]

I've only been once, so maybe it was the group we were with, but it seems to me that people do pretty much whatever they want and respect others right to do the same. It was pretty sexually charged by the nude pool and hot tub (especially in the late night hours) but no one ever did anything without beings invited first. One afternoon it poured rain and everyone left the beach, so we had a little "adult" fun in the rain, when we finished i discovered a small group on a balcony had been watching but they gave a polite golf clap and we went on our way. Ganja seems to be everywhere (you can buy pipes in the gift shop) and is openly smoked almost everywhere cigarettes are. Same idea, if you want it, it's easy to find. If you don't, no one will hassle you about it. At least during our trip I would say Hedo is as sexy as you want it to be. Some people kept clothes on the whole week, others were getting blow jobs in the cool pool most of the day. Kinda like Burger King...Have it your way!

[tbone1]

Strange ways - All comments above are true and accurate. If you are on this site, I assume you are reading other posts, as there is lots of good info about Hedo on here. Hedo can be anything you want it to be. But if you want to make friends with a bunch of great people and have an awesome time, go to Hedo. The staff is wonderful, too. Most people are friendly, open-minded, non-judgmental, fun-loving. If you want to be by yourselves, fine, If you want to party with a bunch of fun people, all good. The sexual vibe is unbelievable. Ganja, no problem, mon. Go and have the best vacation you have ever been on. By the end of the year, we will have gone 10 times in the last 5 years. Every time we leave, we can't believe how much fun we had, and can't wait to go back "home" again.

[Brian&Terri]

I guess it depends on when you go and what groups will be visiting. We've seen much more side pool play on one trip over the other but the groups were different. We've never seen anyone walk up and just get right next to you. We've seen all out sex on the beach during the afternoon a few times. Nude pool and hot tub is pretty much a sure thing during the week. If you feel line you want to fool around go ahead. You sound like that's on your list so go for it. As far as people watching you...during the day it seems people will look over at you but not keep looking. At night they may look longer depending on where you choose to do it. If you do it on a poolside chair next to the pool during the day everyone will watch. If you do it on a chair at the beach at night people will walk by but keep walking. Of you want to be seen you will be. If you want to have sex in the moment it can be sort if private but if you want it private head back to your room.
It really a very open place and I'd say most have already seen something that week already. People don't care about your size or looks as long as you are friendly and fun to be around you will be fine.
Go and you will love it... Trust me.

[Gibby]

Everything stated above is true. We just went for our very first trip this past March and can't wait to go back. As for getting nekid for the first time I suggest dropping your draws within the first 10 min and don't look back. That's what we did the first day and day 2 we didn't bother putting anything on for the walk to the nude pool.
You will see PDA everywhere at times and most likely will be the show at some times.
We vacation at least twice/year to adult only places and this by far was the best vacation ever as long as you have an open mind.
For the most part people are respectful of your boundries, we only had 1 issue of someone who couldn't take no for an answer till I stood up and told him to take a hike. You will run into this anwhere in life.
You won't be disappointed.

[46to10]

There are quite a few opportunities for PDAs, some are more public than others. Don't resort to going behind a bush. You can find better options. There are some hammocks in the garden area that are a bit more private and there are a few spots near the back of the beach under some trees that while not really private, are a bit more private than having sex on a chair by the pool. Generally if you are in spots like that no one will bother you though they may watch from a distance. You won't get any John Holmes types bothering you but you may get John Holmes' creepier brother coming to watch, especially if it's later at night. Just shoo them away.

Don't rule out sex in the water on the beach. You will be mostly hidden but people will know what you are doing.

[ChiTownHedoCpl]

Tough to "bare all"- Actually this is a pretty easy thing to do or at least easier than you might think. We were a little nervous about it but literally 10 minutes into it we were like whatever this is fantastic.

Say we go fool around behind some bushes.. Will we be arrested? Will other people come over and watch?- As with what others have said dont bother with going behind bushes. Instead do what everyone does which is have sex in the nude pool grotto, on the balcony of your room, out in the ocean (on your raft or as seen many times during our week, the floating island), the hot tub at night... Basically it was going on everywhere which answers your other question of whether or not people will watch. Yes some will watch but never all week did I see any leering or uncomfortable, creepy behavior. It was more like hey there's a really hot couple having a threesome on the floating island and then the next comment was yeah and isnt the sunset beyond them beautiful tonight? In other words the things you consider crazy will normalize and become part of the scenery. Odd how that happens but it did happen for us that way

All reviews say it is sexual, but how sexual?- Is as sexual as you want it to be. If you want craziness then spend your time at the nude pool in the day and at the hot tub at night. If you want to tone it down stick the prude side. Neither are better than the other and you and your soon to be wife should discuss what fits your comfort zone and desire/tolerance level. We did a blend. Some days we were over the top crazy ( thank you to some nameless few I know are on the forum who helped us break new ground!) and some days we were just spent and wanted a slower speed.

Anyone feel like you're getting judge about size?- Nope not all. You're in a judgement free zone. There were showers and growers, micropenises and dudes who should have had to have a separate passport for their junk. Two guys were named "baby arm" and "elephant man" while there which was all in jest and good fun. You really will have most of your fun based on your ability to have a good conversation with others and be able to join in on the fun (which is not necessarily sexual). Just adult spring break antics

I'm a ganja smoker also, is it safe to buy there?- We, along with everyone else laying out on the beach, were propositioned at least 6-8 times a day. All day from one guy it was ganja, cocaine, ecstasy and cialis lol. Didnt partake in anything as it is not our thing but it was readily available.

Hope that helps and feel free to send a message if you have more questions

[twoforfun]

Newbies here heading to Hedo in 2 days. We are not worried about the creepers but we are just wondering how many are there on an average week? Are they singles guys or married guys whose wives went to bed early so they go out on the creeper prowl? Just wondering.

[foxxyandhound]

Newbies here heading to Hedo in 2 days. We are not worried about the creepers but we are just wondering how many are there on an average week? Are they singles guys or married guys whose wives went to bed early so they go out on the creeper prowl? Just wondering.

we would say a bit of both there....

[we2are469]

Newbies here heading to Hedo in 2 days. We are not worried about the creepers but we are just wondering how many are there on an average week? Are they singles guys or married guys whose wives went to bed early so they go out on the creeper prowl? Just wondering.

Depends on the week, but generally, a firm "get lost" gets rid of the creepers. Will also be there in 2 days. Never have/had worried about creepers. Heard some good stories though about why HE was there, and the wife wasn't. LOL

Ray

[takemetonegril]

"In other words the things you consider crazy will normalize and become part of the scenery."

Too damn funny! and oh so very true.

Cheers