My wife and I are madly in love, and - quite frankly - a couple of sex manics! We're not in our first marriages, and the kids are all gone, and it's just us and we love our life and our love. I am attracted to the idea of going to Hedo---kind of a bucket list thing. The Mrs. is not really comfortable with the idea, having somewhat of a conservative outlook about nudity, and being around men she doesn't know who also are naked. But I know - deep down - that she would have a great time. She has an exhibitionist side, and a wonderful fun side, and I really dig being with her when she lets her hair down.
But she is not, and I am not into the Lifestyle thing. So we would just like to co-exist with all the swingers and others that are there. Reading this forum, and other reviews, that seems to be pretty normal for Hedo; everybody just does "their thing". So, I'm not worried about it. But I think she is.
So, my question for all the other sex manic straight couples on this forum: What would you tell my wife to assure her, to assuage her fears about the nudity and the openness of a week at Hedo? Surely there are many other women on this site who have gone through that same cycle of concern, or outright fear, about gettin' naked with a bunch of strangers. Help me out here!
My gut tells me we'd have a great time! I want to have that great time!!!
Also, many of you have written that going with a group is a good way to go, and to break the ice with other couples. But what tour operator has a more homogenous mix of straight couples, and is not totally dedicated to the swing crowd? Any suggestions would be welcome.
Thanks for your feedback and encouragement!
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