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    Having trouble finding the rules\etiquette on the Hedo II site

    Hi everyone,

    We've done SO MUCH research over the last year about Hedo II and similar resorts that I remember coming across several items but now can't find them for the life of me.

    -Is the after-hours hot-tub a place where sex is actually allowed, or just some people "get away with it"? I'm sure we read that it's ok to have sex there, does this include in the daytime?
    -Sex on the beach (at night) is definitely ok?
    -We thought you couldn't be nude in the restaurants but now on the hedo II site it shows etiquette for dining nude? Any ideas on this one? See here: http://www.hedonism.com/hedo-life/
    -We booked into a nude room, can we walk to the room initially with clothes on or do you strip down before they take you to the room (lol)

    We'd hate to do anything to upset anyone or get in trouble, loving having sex in public and doing the nude thing but we want to do it right and not get into any awkwardness with staff. thanks!

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    Quote Originally Posted by NorthernCouple View Post
    Hi everyone,

    We've done SO MUCH research over the last year about Hedo II and similar resorts that I remember coming across several items but now can't find them for the life of me.

    -Is the after-hours hot-tub a place where sex is actually allowed, or just some people "get away with it"? I'm sure we read that it's ok to have sex there, does this include in the daytime?
    -Sex on the beach (at night) is definitely ok?
    -We thought you couldn't be nude in the restaurants but now on the hedo II site it shows etiquette for dining nude? Any ideas on this one? See here: http://www.hedonism.com/hedo-life/
    -We booked into a nude room, can we walk to the room initially with clothes on or do you strip down before they take you to the room (lol)
    We'd hate to do anything to upset anyone or get in trouble, loving having sex in public and doing the nude thing but we want to do it right and not get into any awkwardness with staff. thanks!
    Dam I hate it when I get logged off because my answer is to long winded. I'll try again.

    -After hours in the hot tub, security (well last April anyway) just walks around and pays no attention to ANY social or sexual interactions.
    These days, reports indicate that the sex police are out in force, and day light sex is discouraged.
    -No, you could never be totally nude in the main dinning area. But that said, you only need to dress in the very minimal amount of clothing. Something very sheer over the titties, and a light wrap, see thru or otherwise, below the waste.
    -You can walk anywhere in the resort with clothes on, except the nude pool/hot tub/ beach. That includes wearing clothes to and from your room.
    You are required to be nude only at the nude pool/hot tub/ beach. You will have a few minutes on arrival at the nude side pool area, to disrobe, or you will be asked to do so, or leave, by security.

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    Thanks for posting the etiquette link.It was helpful as I realized that more people might sit with me at breakfast if I did a better job of keeping my elbows off the table and maintaining good posture.Maybe that is where I have been going wrong all this time and never realized it...........(for the record though,Mom did try to teach me these things,but now I have Motivation!)

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    I do believe that the etiquette post on the Hedo II web site was meant to be tongue in cheek (as opposed to tongue in other areas).
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    Quote Originally Posted by Naughty Nudists View Post
    Thanks for posting the etiquette link.It was helpful as I realized that more people might sit with me at breakfast if I did a better job of keeping my elbows off the table and maintaining good posture.Maybe that is where I have been going wrong all this time and never realized it...........(for the record though,Mom did try to teach me these things,but now I have Motivation!)
    Elbows on the table really Jerry were you raised in a barn. Lol. It's ok we will sit with you

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    Yea, were not sitting at the table to sit with you Jerry, were sitting with your sexy wife, lol.\
    But you can stay.
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    We returned from our 6th trip 2 weeks ago here is our take on your questions as we had heard lots of sex police all over.
    1) Nude pretty much starts at sign on beach and at the overpass on the walkway where nude section starts. 2) nude is only required at nude beach and nude pool area ( security will ask you if you have clothes on to remove them)
    3) Sex of different levels is going to be policed anywhere from nude grill toward the water (in pool, waterfall cave, hot tub, lounge chair)so from nude bar to bathrooms no security stopped any of this at day light
    4) We had a great sex session on lounge chairs at beach at night and no one stopped us nor did we really see many security persons
    5) you might want to wait till you get to your room before getting nekkid as you don't want to have to carry your clothes lol
    6) sex at nude hot tub later in night meaning from 11pm on is not policed(as we noticed anyway)
    lastly - the great news about hedo family is - if you are enjoying yourself in some way then if the person or persons around you are uncomfortable they will simply move for a bit(not saying that the odd duck wont complain)

    Have a great trip!!!
    This is just our recent experience and not the bible lol



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    I've never noticed the sex police in April. Saw many couples have PDA's to full sex during the day on the nude beach. Maybe they police it more in January then say what's the point and let it go after a few months?
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    Public sex is illegal is Jamaica, as in the USA and Canada. Hedo itself has been a controversial topic in Jamaica from time to time. So resort security tries to keep a lid on open sexual activity on the beach during the daytime, where passing boats and people walking along the beach could see it. The nude pool and hot tub areas are not really visible to passing boats, so guests are left alone in those areas. After dark, the "sex police" stand down.

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    Maybe we can give the "sex police" the week off March 1st thru 8th???

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    What if we give them the whole month of march off wife really wants to have sex on the beach again

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    Oh my,I just realized I have actually broken the laws of a foreign nation!But despite all that,I am hopeful of having company for breakfast some morning as I know better how to act in public now.I love this forum and resort!And even though we never get snow,I am officially tired of this cold dreary weather and ready for some Jamaican "love in the sun" as R&V once said......

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    Quote Originally Posted by bpcouple View Post
    What if we give them the whole month of march off wife really wants to have sex on the beach again
    It's only illegal if you get caught.

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    We found a spot on the floating dock there in the nude beach during a rain storm for some exotic day sex last June. Never heard security scream nor were we apprehended once back a shore.
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