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    Trip Report 8/7-8/13 2014

    We just completed our Virgin trip to hedo. We were there for seven days and my wife and I weren’t completely ready to go to the nude side immediately, so we decided to stay on the prude side. At first we thought the resort was almost vacant however we kept seeing a lot of people during dinner. So I wondered where they could have been all day. Based on everything that I have read on this forum I started to realize that everybody is probably on the nude side :-). The nighttime entertainment was fantastic. The food was great everything from the buffet to the jerk chicken and we both enjoyed it thoroughly. Two employees that stood out to me were Ricardo at the Japanese restaurant and Austin at the omelet station. The lack of activities on the prude side left us wanting more. So finally(Day 5) we mustered up the courage to spend time on the nude side and, I have to say it was much more fun over there. There was music, games, and most importantly PEOPLE!!! Everyone was really really friendly. The nude beach was pretty tranquil but, the pool was a completely different animal. I have read many postings here and there's nothing that I saw that I haven't read before however reading about PDA’s/PDP’s and experiencing them are two completely different things. We thought we would be alright with it but it turned out to be much more of a turn off than we expected. Listen, I'm all for a little fooling around and then deciding to take it back to the room, but it is another story when that changes into full-blown sex and oral sex with intent to finish. I hesitated on writing this report because I've only heard positive things about this resort and I don't want to seem like the Debbie downer of the group. Truthfully outside of the PDP’s we really really enjoyed this resort. We just don't feel completely convinced that we would return back. I hope this report doesn't offend anybody here who likes to participate in those activities. For us it's not a matter of being judgmental as it is simply being comfortable. In a nutshell, we felt that we had to choose between no activities(Prude) or PDP’s(Nude) and it didn’t feel like a win-win proposition.

    As an aside… I also did get a chance to meet the owner in the nude pool and he made us feel a bit uncomfortable as he just seemed WAY too eager to break the personal space boundary with my wife before even introducing himself.

    Thanks again to all of you for your support.

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    Grovehurdler,thanks for sharing your thoughts and opinions,that is why this board is here.Glad you made the best of it and remember different weeks have different groups and the PDA's and PDP's may not be seen some weeks.We go at Thanksgiving every year(for the last 12 years)and it is usually pretty calm that week.
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    Thanks for the report. My theory is that 80% of the guests are on 20% of the resort during the day. Glad you enjoyed for the most part.
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    Grove. Uncomfortable, personal space, boundaries, wife, that is getting to be an all to familiar story about someone. To bad
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    Quote Originally Posted by grovehurdler View Post
    I have read many postings here and there's nothing that I saw that I haven't read before however reading about PDA’s/PDP’s and experiencing them are two completely different things. We thought we would be alright with it but it turned out to be much more of a turn off than we expected. Listen, I'm all for a little fooling around and then deciding to take it back to the room, but it is another story when that changes into full-blown sex and oral sex with intent to finish. Grove
    I had the experience of feeling turned off by witnessing some explicit sex at Hedo. Well, I find it like porn -it can be a turn on or a turn off. The few times it didn't appeal to me I just looked another way. But I found typically the open sex wasn't actually that explicit; it would be obvious that oral sex was happening due to the positioning of a head in the groin area of the recipient but you couldn't actually see anything more than that. For me the liberty is worth the trade-off of seeing some things you aren't in to. Anyway, critter2 makes a good point; you can enjoy Hedo with minimal explicit PDAs if you go at the right time.

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    It has been said many times, but worth repeating- if you are not comfortable with viewing PDAs and oral sex, including public sex, then Hedonism II is likely not for you.

    I guess it is possible to have a good quiet vacation staying on the prude side, or perhaps even the nude beach (excluding nude pool)- glad to read that you liked the nighttime entertainment and the food- but for us, Hedo without the nude pool is just another clothing optional resort, of which there are many without the crazy Hedo vibe.

    But this is a good report, Grove, because folks really should consider their comfort level and have all the facts before choosing where to spend their vacation time and money. Thanks for sharing your viewpoint!

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    I would like to add the a lot of people fool around as fore play and do not "finish" at the pool area
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    My personal advice to anyone considering a trip to Hedo is this ... be able to HONESTLY say that you are extremely open minded and not easily offended. If I'm not sure they get it I throw in a personal experience or one that I've witnessed to define "open minded".

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    We were there from the 22-30th of July, and only saw sporadic and easily-ignored PDA/Public sex. Only like three times did we see full blown sex in the nude pool during daylight hours. Now, the hot tub at 1am is another animal, but frankly we think it SHOULD be. =)

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    Quote Originally Posted by mac_r_a View Post
    I would like to add the a lot of people fool around as fore play and do not "finish" at the pool area
    Quote Originally Posted by Philly Dave View Post
    My personal advice to anyone considering a trip to Hedo is this ... be able to HONESTLY say that you are extremely open minded and not easily offended. If I'm not sure they get it I throw in a personal experience or one that I've witnessed to define "open minded".

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    Both of these comments are so spot on! I would say that there is A LOT of flirting/foreplay taking place throughout the day that may never go any further than that. When we tell people ab out being opened minded when we go, we always tell them the story of when we watched a couple get mot married and more!
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    Grove, don't worry about offending people, all comments are valued and everybody leaves with different thoughts and impressions. If nothing else your report may make people think twice about Hedo not being the right resort for them if they feel like you do about PDA's

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    Thanks for your report. This does help a newbie be prepare.





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    Quote Originally Posted by The Timidtwo View Post
    We were there from the 22-30th of July, and only saw sporadic and easily-ignored PDA/Public sex. Only like three times did we see full blown sex in the nude pool during daylight hours. Now, the hot tub at 1am is another animal, but frankly we think it SHOULD be. =)

    All depends on the group and week.
    Now now, there were a few things not easily ignored, but you were participating... LOL. I don't think that we saw anyone planning on completing any action in the pool though. I looked at everything with humor too. One day a woman was distributing waterproof lube in the pool and there were a ton of laughing bobbing couples. I think that if i hadn't found the humor, it may have wigged me out a little (until we were given some of the lube ourselves).

    I am truly sorry for your experience, but one thing you said made me think that Hedo was not the resort for you. FIVE DAYS until you made to the nude side? Yikes
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    Thanks everyone for the feedback.

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    On our first trip we had an idea what we'd see but that first time was overwhelming. We got to the nude pool on a Saturday afternoon and it was hopping. In the first hour we saw many girl girl oral on the side of the pool. A few girls giving guys oral. A few couples having sex in the pool. My wife even has her boobs kissed by a few girls and she's not bi. Was it a lot to take in? Yes. Were we ready? For the most part. Were we doing the same thing a few days later? YES. We knew this going in and it was still a lot to take in. Some will like it some won't. That's what Hedo is famous for really.
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