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    Room Door Open During Sex...an invitation to...

    We have read somewhere that at Hedo II it is fairly common to be walking down the hallway and pass a room with the door wide open and see the occupants of the room having sex. We have read this is an open invitation to watch from the hall. Other times, we have read it is an invitation to enter the room to watch, and also that it is an invitation to come in and maybe participate.

    So, as newbies we have some questions.

    1) Does this really happen or is this just a made up fantasy?

    2) If this really occurs, what is the open door policy? I think it would obviously mean the participants want to be seen. So, is it an invitation to watch from the hallway, to come in to the room to watch, or is it more?

    3) Have you ever done this; what happened?

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    Dave & Cindy

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    BTW, we ask because it is a fantasy of ours to be watched while having sex. We have had sex at resorts before (adult only but not clothing optional resorts) with our window drapes wide open but not the door. While it was a turn on, we knew that people probably didn't actually see us since it was bright outside and dark in the room. We are planning a trip to Hedo because we think it will allow us the opportunity to really experience the exhibitionist tendencies we have in a safe environment.

    Thanks,

    Dave & Cindy

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    A lot of people will keep their door open. If the door is open, say hello. If the are on the bed, watch and wait to see if they invite you in. WE have done this and like to keep the door open as you get to make new friends this way.
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    You don't have to do it the room to be watched. A lot of people will do it at the hot tub or in a lounge chair.
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    I have been on both ends of this - what it would usually mean is to watch from the door or step in. NEVER join without asking permission. And no one should ever join u without asking permission. If you do this and someone does come in and sit on the bed thinking you were inviting them - a simple "sorry guys we were just into being watched" should do it and there would not be any hard feelings (pun intended, lol) That is how I suspect it would play out.
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    Heck, the last time we were at Hedo, we watched from a float while it was happening on the lounge chairs in front of the nude side rooms; the beach in front of said lounge chairs; the large round float by the groyne; beside and behind us on other floats. That's just 5 instances around 3 PM on a Saturday afternoon......

    So I don't think there will be too many complaints from other guests if "the mood strikes wherever and whenever...)

    Quote Originally Posted by Dave_Houston_TX View Post
    BTW, we ask because it is a fantasy of ours to be watched while having sex. We have had sex at resorts before (adult only but not clothing optional resorts) with our window drapes wide open but not the door. While it was a turn on, we knew that people probably didn't actually see us since it was bright outside and dark in the room. We are planning a trip to Hedo because we think it will allow us the opportunity to really experience the exhibitionist tendencies we have in a safe environment.

    Thanks,

    Dave & Cindy

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    We've seen plenty of open doors over the years and enjoy checking out the action....unless we're in a hurry to get somewhere else. As others have said, it is an invitation to watch, not to come in...always ask. We've enjoyed the old window seats at Hedo a few times as well, which is always a treat. Also, take a look UP towards the ceilings when walking by the rooms and you might see something fun as well. FYI, if you like being watched there are limitless opportunities for that (tho please use a towel in common areas (my public service announcement of the day). I've had folks come over to the lounge chair next to me on an almost deserted beach and start having sex....that was an interesting afternoon.

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    Seen many a open doors. And we've been on both sides of the door. Love the sexual freedom and fun. Always use common sense ask before doing that's the best policy!
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    It is an invitation to watch the show, but not necessarily to join in and participate yourself unless you are asked. Ask to come inside and meet the "performers" and see what happens next...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jamaica Joe View Post
    It is an invitation to watch the show, but not necessarily to join in and participate yourself unless you are asked. Ask to come inside and meet the "performers" and see what happens next...
    Hmmmmm sounds interesting

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    As in all things, be careful what you wish for. Last year my wife had to be brought in to explain (in Russian) to a group of drunk Russian guys that an open door was not an invitation for the whole group of them to go in and stand around and watch. That they were not, in fact, what the couple was hoping to show up. Apparently they didn't touch, but they were probably hoping to be asked to join in.

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    While the door was not open we had a first floor nude garden room. About 4 pm had the wifes legs were up like a wish bone we got a lot of looks from people coming back from the nude pool going back to the there room.

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