First Timers - Embarrassing/Nervous Question

[jjohey82]

Hi all -

We are new to the forum as a registered user, but have been lurking for a little while now. My husband and I are planning on making a visit to DRM sometime late 2015, early 2016.

One major concern my husband has is in regards to being overly 'excited'. We have read a few posts/threads where everyone else seems to be fine with it, it happens on occasion. His concern is, he tends to get 'excited' easily if you know what I mean. He has the sexual testosterone level of that of a 16 year old boy. Now, I'm not complaining but he is a little embarrassed/concerned that in a very sexually charged environment, like that of DRM, he may get 'excited' very easily just noticing other attractive women. He thinks that if another couple came up to chat with us, and the women is attractive, he may get 'excited' on the spot, noticing her beautiful body.

We are not into the lifestyle, so I guess his/our thoughts are what type of 'signal' would that put out to the couple chatting with us, if they are into the lifestyle? Even if they are not into the lifestyle? We don't want to 'false advertise' so to speak or lead others on based on this. We don't want to drive people away either.

Thank you in advance.

[millionsnmilo]

Let's just say it's not an uncommon thing

Have never been to DRM but at Hedo with Cialis -- no worries. Hop in a pool, have a girl put her hand or something else on it. Add suntan lotion. or just say --Hey happy to see you!

No worries it's all good

[CopNkitten]

Or Yell "RING TOSS"
Cop..

[PNK]

Many/some/most first timer males in fact have the opposite reaction to a few dozen naked men and women. Their shyness/embarrassment kicks in for a few seconds. But everyone gets over the first reactions. After a dozen trips to similar places we give it no further thought -- until age etc. sets in and we have the opposite concerns.

Like all irrational thoughts, it's not worth getting concerned over something that simple will NOT happen. And if it does you might get a round of applause, or a shrug, or a hand (or something) shake. Remember, a gentleman always stands when a woman enters the room/pool/beach etc Or make that you excuse.

In teenage language : get over it or enjoy the experience. The rest of us do.

PNK
Hedo two weeks today