Frst time single male?

**mavsfan17** · 05-07-2014, 03:55 PM

I recently came across the hedonism website while looking for a trip to take and that led me here. Im hoping to get some questions answered and see if this is really the place to go. As it says I am single and would most likely be traveling alone. The majority of posts on the forum seem to be from couples. So i am wondering if going here single is frowned upon. Im 32 in fairly decent shape and after seeing the website and reading some posts thought this would be a very fun and adventorous vacation. I have read a few post where couples talk about the creepy single guy, this is what i don't want. I am a very normal guy just looking for a different vacation as opposed to the same old vacation. Any insight is appreciated and thanks for taking the time to read this.

**sabinaandscott** · 05-07-2014, 04:18 PM

Welcome aboard...There are always single guys and a few single girls at the resort, if you can hang out and socialize at home with strangers in a bar or nightclub, don't have a problem talking with people (not shy and sit in a corner), and go with the midset to have fun with no expectations you will fit in. The creepy guys the couples mention are going with a preconceived notion of a sexual free for all, and don't generally know how to act in a social setting, thinking naked woman wants to sleep with me attitude. Sounds like you have the right idea and mindset...once you go, you'll know.

**Buck** · 05-08-2014, 07:55 AM

I will say this. We had several single guys this trip try and move in. Be aware when your not welcome read the people you are trying to talk to. You will know if your welcome or not. I had to ask a couple of guys to back off this year as they making the women uncomfortable.

**takemetonegril** · 05-11-2014, 06:54 AM

Yes, go, have fun, just don't be that creepy guy.
You'll have the time of your life. Single guys are accepted and welcome if you're normal, polite, and wait to be invited to whatever. The best part is, if you are normal and polite etc, etc, you'll be invited to join in very quickly.

Cheers