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    Alright, to start this off I'll go ahead and say that I have been unsuccessful in trying to persuade the Mrs. into going to an all nude resort. I have gotten her interested in trying Hedo on the prude side. We are looking for a trip to get away from the kids and to get our marriage back on track (for lack of a better word). Will we be severely disappointed or should we just stay with something along the line of Sandals? I am looking for a laid back atmosphere with a little (or a lot) of partying to where we can just let our "hair" down and have some fun. Also, she does have a fantasy of watching and participating in PDA's, but she just states that she is not ready yet. I'm actually hoping that I can get her to Hedo and actually give it a try. Please give me words of wisdom here. Thanks in advance!!!!

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    IMO, if you are trying to get your marriage back on track then Hedo is probably not a good first choice......to have a successful relaxing vacation at Hedo, you have to have very open communication between spouses and I mean brutally honest communications. Sounds like you think the open sexual atmosphere will "get it back on track" where as the Mrs. might think there needs to be more intimacy vs sex or she may need more validation...who knows unless you talk to her....she might not even be aware that things don't seem to be on the right track for you. Each persons perception is their reality. Not knowing you or the Mrs., this is just blanket general type answer. I have known people that just needed that little nudge of being there to open up but had to be their choice to be there.

    You won't find a crazy party at a Sandals though...think they roll up the sidewalks at 10 pm over there but there are other resorts with busier nightlife...some on here might could offer suggestions.

    Also, rarity that she will see PDA on the prude side....not saying it doesn't happen is just not as common as on the nude beach/hot tub/pool area.
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    Temptations maybe? Or Desires?

    But I agree that you should talk a lot, and deeply, about it.
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    Think Temptations at Cancun. There is no nude or prude side. However there is some topless, depending on who is in attendance. Certainly there are party opportunities. When we were last there there was an evening trip to one of the big, famous discos, most evenings. There are also plenty of easy to arrange off campus trips -- lots of opportunities for a romantic setting and photos to show friends and the folks.

    The restaurants were good, the bars well stocked, and the atmosphere lively. It's not Hedo, so you will not be getting into PDFs, but it sounds like that's not really what your relationship needs right now.

    Do some more homework (family and vacation) but cross Hedo off the list for a while.

    Just my opinion

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    Here is a slightly different opinion. While I would agree that Hedo will not fix a marriage that is in trouble, it can certainly heat things up a bit in the romance department. A few years ago, my very conservative wife and I had never been to a nude beach/resort. We took a day trip to one with another couple, and now go to Hedo twice a year, counting the days until we can return. We are not "in the lifestyle", but have come to totally enjoy being nude and the whole atmosphere at Hedo. If you have found this website, I recommend that you do a lot of reading and then decide. There is lots of good info on here. If you decide to try Hedo, I believe you will find that you will make many friends with a bunch or great people from all over the country/world. None of them will put any pressure on you do to anything that you are not comfortable with. The staff there is awesome and will do everything they can to make your vacation enjoyable. Every time we leave to go home, we are thinking that we just had the best vacation of our lives. If you wife is uncomfortable about going nude, you can start on the prude side. However, if you decide to venture over to the nude side, you will find that it is five minutes of terror, followed by the best time you can have on the planet. You will quickly realize that there are a bunch of normal, regular folks of all ages, and shapes, and sizes, who are comfortable in their own skin, and just want to have a good time. Nobody cares that you are nude, or what you look like, or how much money you have. We have always gone with a group to get the best rates. Check out Jon's Fluffernutters, Wild Women Vacations, or any group that will be there when you are interested in going. Go for it, you only live once, right. Good luck!

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    I really have to agree with Tbone. Go to Hedo. Try to go during a higher occupancy time. Put your toes in the water on the C/O side. Join in the fun, socialise, and there is a very good chance that you will ease yourselves into the nude side. Get down to the nude side hot tub after midnight and fulfil your fantasies about the Pre Dawn Aperitifs, and it will be all uphill from there. Life's too short to take the long way around to any destination.

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