Young, and new

[oklahomacouple]

Hello everyone, as the title says we are a young couple that is relatively new and inexperienced to the "lifestyle". We have watched and been watched a few times, and dabbled in a little more (she had a FWB that she would meet and have sex with about twice a month, and I messed around with a girl about 2 times.) But for reasons to long to mention we have stopped recently and concentrated on each other. So thats the back story.
Now, we are both young (under 25), fit and healthy, clean, and we like to think we are fun, I work full time, and she is about to graduate college. We have been to cancun, and went to one of the more laid back hotels, that wasnt wild at all. We both wanted more, as in going topless/nude, no kids, and PDA that was totally acceptable, so I started researching adult resorts. And no offense to anyone at all, she loves older guys, and I think mature females, and some older guys are very sexy and fun (in fact most of my friends are older, in their 30's and 40's). But we were wondering what resorts, or vacations would be good for a couple like us? A young couple that we more like to watch,be watched, and maybe soft swap, but if the alcohol is flowing then we could easily find, or be offered more; all while being surrounded by people that are in their 20's, 30's, and 40's. From what I have read on this forum it seems like H2 is the more popular resort, but and correct me if I am wrong, it also seems like the crowd is a little older. Any help, advice, or comments would be appreciated. For some reason I could only get pics of her to upload but hopefully you get the idea. Oh and about this resort and vacation, it isnt required but could be fun if guys didnt mind guy contact, not sex, but just touching, messing around, kinda joking and having fun.

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[mac_r_a]

Very sexy wife you have there. I sent you a private message

[4us2]

There is a younger Lifestyle group in later march or early april. Check the group listings.

[Stefbo]

Great pictures!!!

We first went to Hedo when we were in our late 20's and now are in our early-mid 30's. Both times we went were in Aug (which is traditionally a slow time of year) and there was a decent percentage of folks around our age there.

Given that you enjoy being around a crowd a little older then you, we can confidently say that you will be in good company at Hedo. Most everyone there is young at heart at least and there are lots of people in their 30's if that is the crowd you like to spend time with.

With what you wrote, Hedo sounds like a perfect match for you and if you are still concerned, I would hunt around and find a group that attracts a younger crowd (like Young Swingers Week and more) and go with them, or while they are there.

If you have any specific questions about going as a couple in our 20's or 30's, drop us a line!

Stef and Em

[Dee and Bruce]

We are "older" and would love to see you this June 23rd to July 5th.

Bruce and Denise

[STL-MO-CPL]

I think Hedo would be a home run for you guys. From our experience, the demographics of the crowd shifts depending on when you go. We just went over Thanksgiving and it was much older than the first time we went over June/July.

[AlphaLily]

We are going for the first time in late June too, and we had the same concerns but everyone's replies here has made us feel like everything will be just fine

[HedoJoe]

Don't let physical ages deter you. We may be mid 50's but have played and partied at Hedo with couples from their mid 20's and up. The age difference in the vanilla world is a much bigger deal than at Hedo.

[MidwestMartini]

"but could be fun if guys didnt mind guy contact, not sex, but just touching, messing around, kinda joking and having fun."


Now that could be a bit of a stretch! LOL!