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    Newbies heading for Desire RM

    Hello everyone,

    I'm a 29 year old male and my wife is also 29 living in Canada. My wife and I will be heading to Desire RM in Cancun, and we have never been to a resort like this before. Any tips for some newbies?

    We are not "in the lifestyle" but my wife is Bi and would love to play with another woman if she had the chance. However, the vibe that I get from most reviews is that girl on girl is frowned upon by the resort/staff. Anyone she'd some light on this for us please?

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    You will have a great trip, Go with NO EXPECTATIONS, be genuine, open and friendly and you will have no problems. Don't be rude or obnoxious or try to push things to happen. You will have other people ask you what you are into and don't be afraid to say what it is that you're looking for. Also don't be afraid to say you are a newbie, there is no shame in that, we were all there at one time (my wife loves breaking in the newbie girls ). I wouldn't say that girl/girl activity is frowned upon at all, in fact it's probably just as common as male/female play. Desire is even doing some things to encourage it such as allowing single women and threesome couples to book for certain weeks. In my opinion it's the lady's that drive the lifestyle and if she's looking for a bi experience she will more than likely find it there. What are your dates? We'll be there Feb 20th - Mar 6th.
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    We are down there on Feb 16-23. Super pumped to get warm for a change. Just 16 more days!!

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    Fantastic, we'll see you when we get there, we'll buy you a drink. Sounds like there's lots of Canadians there that week.

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    Have you seen people on this site saying that they will be there? It would be nice to get a feel for people before we... get a feel.

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    There's not a lot of activity on this board for Desire, mostly Hedo people here (which isn't a bad thing ). I'll PM you the URL for a site that is strictly about Desire.

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    Oh good, thank you. Getting more excited every minute.

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    We are going to Pearl the week of the 17th. We are super excited as well. First timers there and CO in general. We love to have fun and get away from it all. Not sure if we are gonna make it to RM but who knows. Anyone else gonna be at Pearl that week?

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    We are using the discreet phone number the resort provides. That way, if the family calls, it won't be an awkward explanation as to where we are staying. I sure hope it works.

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    Hi there. My wife and I are looking to go to Desire RM or pearl, but would like some more reviews if you can refer us to a site just for Desire. Thanks!

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    DesireMexico dot com is a great resource. As much as this site is Hedo-centric, that site is all about Desire. With that being said, we post our trip reviews to both sites.
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    Hello. We're going to Desire Pearl for the first time in November. Would love to know a forum designated to Desire RM and Pearl if we can get it. Thanks.

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