The first time your wife fucked another man

[CopNkitten]

life was meant to be enjoyed.

Cop..

[Booboo123]

My H spoke about this fantasy a lot. So last year as a surprise I booked a weekend at The Vanilla Alternative. We had a blast! He saw me giving another man a BJ hot as hell then watched as he fucked me. It has raised our sex life big time and I have had a FFM threesomes since. With careful vetting we since had a MMF too. Fucking awesome! Can't wait to go to Spice next year for more fun times.

[SXMCOLover]

My H spoke about this fantasy a lot. So last year as a surprise I booked a weekend at The Vanilla Alternative. We had a blast! He saw me giving another man a BJ hot as hell then watched as he fucked me. It has raised our sex life big time and I have had a FFM threesomes since. With careful vetting we since had a MMF too. Fucking awesome! Can't wait to go to Spice next year for more fun times.

I hadn't thought about a FFM, but a MMF might be worth a try. Which did you enjoy more? Was your hubby part of the MMF?

[befree]

I'm totally agree with you, it's perfect see her when someone fuck her. I tried 3 times with my girlfriend's. Two time I shared my girls, it was great to see them when they were ducking my girls hard. Once I shared my girl with a group. It was amazing to see bcs 3 big cock was on my girl. But after that group thing I couldn't f*ck my girl for a week cause of they extremely f*ck hard her ass. But i wanna see and try that group thing if we find new group who has big cocks, hi from greece

[sexylady]

Each to themselves. Big cock may be a fantasy, but medically a four inch will do as well, in fact better than a 9 inch. A woman has sensitivity only until 3 inches deep, after that it is nothing. Wear and tear is what you get beyond 4-6 inches. A MMF is great, my husband just watches and even considers it a violation of other man's privacy, unless he is invited to join in. But, he never leaves the room and will like to make a video if the other man agrees. Who wants to eat at home everyday, even if it is great - we all eat out once a while. Whether it is pleasure of the palate or pleasure of the crevice - consider it just another sensitive cavity salivating to be titillated.

[cinnamonflixxx]

Each to themselves. Big cock may be a fantasy, but medically a four inch will do as well, in fact better than a 9 inch. A woman has sensitivity only until 3 inches deep, after that it is nothing. Wear and tear is what you get beyond 4-6 inches. A MMF is great, my husband just watches and even considers it a violation of other man's privacy, unless he is invited to join in. But, he never leaves the room and will like to make a video if the other man agrees. Who wants to eat at home everyday, even if it is great - we all eat out once a while. Whether it is pleasure of the palate or pleasure of the crevice - consider it just another sensitive cavity salivating to be titillated.

This doesn't take into account the A zone, the anterior fornix erogenous zone. It's located above the cervix which is deeper than 4 inches on most women. However, personally I'd rather take 4 inches than 8. Variety is nice though :-) thank goodness for sex toys and open minds.

[CoupleInMD]

I have seen (and posted in this thread about) Mrs. CoupleInMD being fucked by another guy during a full swap. Last weekend she took things to a higher level. As things had evolved at the house party we attended, Mrs. CoupleInMD and I were playing in separate rooms. While I was having a fun time with a particularly oral woman, Mrs. CoupleInMD somehow ended up at the center of an MFM, with another M fondling her tits for good measure! She had a great time riding one guy while another stood up and fed her mouth with his cock- it fulfilled one of her fantasies.

When she told me all about it later, I was "holy shit!" shocked, seriously impressed, and very turned on! Thinking about it the next day, I started to realize that I was feeling a little left out- she had experienced this huge thing, this bucket-list type thing, and I wasn't there to see it. Is that jealousy? Maybe a kind of jealousy, but based on wanting to share the experience with her rather than wanting to keep her to myself. We talked it out, and we both felt better after that. After all, I had also had something of a milestone on my own (first time cumming during a swap- yay!) as well.

I'm not sure what we would have done differently if we had the chance to replay the whole evening. But we will be fine if we keep on talking- and definitely try next time to make me one of the M's in the MFM!

CoupleInMD

[sexylady]

We get over jealousies by being there, for each other. When my mouth goes dry, he is there to shoot a shot of scotch into my mouth. When I am having an O, he is holding my hands. When the other M gets tired and I still want it, he takes over. It is as if we are doing it together, we are all 3 merged into each other, there is no I just we. I haven't had one experience, that I regret. All of them are my lovers and love every moment of pleasure we gave to each other. Once it is over, it is over. We go back home and regale over all the good times, until we are back again.

[Cdn_cpl]

I have seen (and posted in this thread about) Mrs. CoupleInMD being fucked by another guy during a full swap. Last weekend she took things to a higher level. As things had evolved at the house party we attended, Mrs. CoupleInMD and I were playing in separate rooms. While I was having a fun time with a particularly oral woman, Mrs. CoupleInMD somehow ended up at the center of an MFM, with another M fondling her tits for good measure! She had a great time riding one guy while another stood up and fed her mouth with his cock- it fulfilled one of her fantasies.

When she told me all about it later, I was "holy shit!" shocked, seriously impressed, and very turned on! Thinking about it the next day, I started to realize that I was feeling a little left out- she had experienced this huge thing, this bucket-list type thing, and I wasn't there to see it. Is that jealousy? Maybe a kind of jealousy, but based on wanting to share the experience with her rather than wanting to keep her to myself. We talked it out, and we both felt better after that. After all, I had also had something of a milestone on my own (first time cumming during a swap- yay!) as well.

I'm not sure what we would have done differently if we had the chance to replay the whole evening. But we will be fine if we keep on talking- and definitely try next time to make me one of the M's in the MFM!

CoupleInMD

Mr Couple, I don't think that's jealousy at all, just a disappointment that you didn't get to see your wife do something very erotic and something she's been wanting for a while. We've had the same thing happen to us which is why we prefer sticking to the same room, a big part of it for us is seeing our partner in action, we both get a huge charge from that. Sounds like you're definitely on the right track by talking it out afterwards, we love reviewing an evening with each other, what we liked and didn't like, what we would do again or not do, it's a big turn on and usually leads to some hot 'just us' sex.

[Bob & Pat]

Agree with that statement. It's happened a few times to us, talking about it or describing it to each other later is hot. But watching it is much hotter.

[Sweetwife158]

I am with u guys... We can't wait to get there.... She also wants an Mmf ..

[T and J]

Wow - great thread for people who are thinking - Cop/Kitten always give the best advice - We had a marriage riddled with jealousy and lack of communication and we were caught up in the making love world of marriage, the previous relationships being what they were, overall not a spot where this would ever be a conversation. We ended up going to hedo in 2009 for our first ever nude resort and this website and the good people on it helped us with advice on how to prepare, act, behave while there. It has forever changed our relationship for the better. We have had many different forms of relationships since. J has had a couple of ff experiences, a couple of mm(not me) experiences , a FFM (me) and just this weekend I watched her suck and fuck a friend of ours whom we met in hedo (09) while he was in town. She is in control on whether or not it happens, she picks what, just be up front and honest with whom ever you decide to play with that you both have the control to stop it(safe) word and you and your partner then must never get upset with each other. I The T in this have always been the encourager for her as she has taught me that it is always just sex - she has made me realize that she loves me no matter what, whether we do or don't do any of this, and she loves me so much more for allowing her to have these experiences, our sex life at home is better than it was 6+ years ago, we cannot be more happy in love and in so many ways we have to thank the off chance we took a risk and went to H3 in 2009. Thanks to all who have posted and replied to some of our earlier questions and concerns! We are only 39 sleeps till we come home again and we are hoping for another experience to share with each other.

[pcogs]

Really hoping it happens tonight! I am crazy excited to watch my girl with another man. She's going out tonight and looking good in the hopes of making it happen. The crazy thing is that I am only getting to watch it on FaceTime. I'm 900 miles away but I'm so horny. I know it's unconventional but I just can't wait.

[pcogs]

close now

[The Timidtwo]

I'm just going to pop in here real quick and give some of my impressions as the male half of a full-swap couple that's been in the "lifestyle" for about 4 years now.

1) If having sex with another partner is enough to destabilize your relationship, I'd have to wonder how strong it is to begin with. Not trying to sound snarky, but no matter the size, skill, or attractiveness another man or woman brings to the table, I am my wife's life partner (and she is mine), and we have earned our rank through many years of shared joy, shared challenge, and shared experience. No other man held her children as they cried at night, is willing to split chores even-steven, gives her a massage at night before bed even though he is exhausted, etc. Mrs. Timid has had sex with guys who have bigger dicks, more stamina, and certain moves that I don't have, but so what? She loves coming back to sex with me because it means so much more than just the act of sex. If your relationship is strong, open, and honest, you have nothing to fear. Go for it.

2) Watching her have sex with another man is, hands down, something that makes me harder than almost anything else. I mean, I get to watch the most beautiful woman in the world have sex, from angles I can never see when I'm doing it. It's like 3D live porn with my favorite porn star.

3) As I've watched other men have sex with her, I've learned some new moves and some new ideas I never would have thought of before, which I then integrate into our sex life. Did I mention our sex life is exponentially better now than before we became swingers?

4) Being with guys with larger cocks hasn't "ruined" the Mrs.'s Ginny. If she had sex with an 8-incher every day, maybe, but once every few weeks? No, vaginas don't work that way. Childbirth has a larger impact on vagina size/shape, but even that can be 'recovered' from, if you desire such a thing.

5) That being said, if you have doubts whether you are ready, talk it out and wait until you are both more comfortable with the idea. The Mrs. and I have gotten to the point where watching each other have sex (we play same room only) is a huge turn-on for both of us, but it took a LOT of communication and honesty to get to this point.