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    Only soft swap...

    We have gone the last two years in June and we have had a great time both times. We are not swingers at home but we do enjoy playing around a bit with others. But it seems that some people look down upon those who just soft swap (oral, touching, kissing). We would rather finish together and enjoy being watched. Believe me it's always an explosive finish. How does everyone else feel about soft swappers?

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    Well, as softies ourselves we are with you all the way but we do sometime have urges to do more. Soft is really hot and a lot of fun you guys have to do what u want and are comfortable with!!

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    When at Hedo, as long as no is hurt or upset...

    Also, when in June do you go? Our group is there the 3rd week of June the past 3 years....

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    How do I feel about it.
    Well we met this couple one time and were hitting it off, and the husband told us, I want to be upfront, my wife only likes to play with the women but when she is done, the women can give the other husband blow jobs to finish them off after watching the girls. People turn us down all the time because my wife wont fuck them.
    My answer was - I get to watch your hot wife play with my hot wife and afterwards I get a blow job from your hot wife, and people turn this down? I don't see the down side here, lol.
    Full swap, soft swap, touching, oral, kissing, flirting only, we like it all and respect others limits.
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    We have no problem with soft swap couples. If we are interested, we will generally play to the comfort level of the other couple. We remember how we started and give as much respect to couples as other couples gave us. There is nothing wrong with being "vacation swingers".
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    I'm hoping to try some soft stuff with the wife at Hedo.


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    Just be upfront about your restrictions right away to avoid any confusion down the road.
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    I totally agree, Cop. Kim know she has my full permission to go far as she wants


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    For sure know your restrictions among each other first as well, sometimes lines can get blurred between alcohol and the heat of the moment.
    Then communicate your restrictions to others.
    Communication is key all around.
    Then have a blast, its all there at Hedo.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Erich&Kim View Post
    I totally agree, Cop. Kim know she has my full permission to go far as she wants
    As does kitten, as long as I am around with men (I keep an eye on my kitten, cop/husband thing, and I like to watch too) and anytime she wants with women if I am around or not, lol.
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    we've had soft swap at H111 and grand lido braco. Hoping for some at N resort in Feb.

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