Here are some of the clues that have worked when someone wanted to play with my wife:
Staring, yes staring, but kind of soft smiling
Responding to a hello - inviting for the next step of the conversation
Most people don't ask my wife first, they ask me the husband, so get friendly with the man, if you after the wife or vice versa
Couples that are hanging out waiting for something to happen - don't disturb couples that are already busy with themselves
Husband leaves the wife alone for some to make an approach if they find the husband intimidating
Those who have played before, will play again
Get there first before someone gets there, and just ask, if any of the indicators above are available
I hope these work - what is frustrating is someone staring and not coming over.
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