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    Realistic expectations for 1st couple looking for man

    Looking for realistic expectations for a early 40's couple that has never done this sort of thing.
    Both want to introduce another man into the bed for fun. Straight male and bi-curious female couple. We've talked lots and are ready if it happens. We are both a bit timid though. How could the opportunity present itself while there? She's not interested in swinging right now, just a 3way. Any comments??? Going in September...

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    No advice?

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    Registered User millionsnmilo's Avatar
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    Go to Hedo with no expectations and you will have a good time. As with you pushing for an answer --that won't work.
    Lots of couples at Hedo and some single girls. Big question is what happens to the other male?

    Again don't have any expectations and you will have a great time.

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    Should be no problem finding what you want as long as you are up front with what your looking for.
    Post your dates on here, see who is going when you are, make some friends before you go.
    Chat to people, couples and single guys when you are there, and see where it leads.
    Though single guys do get a bad rap, and most of the time well earned because of the way some act there, there are also great single guys at Hedo as well.
    My sexy kitten found a single guy at hedo one time that she took a liking too, which is very rare, and we had a blast, several times that week with him.
    But as stated, don't go with the single mindset of getting that, go with the mindset of having fun and seeing what happens, be open and honest with what you want, and you should have no problems.
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    Have to agree with Milo on this one. No expectations !! If you get all worked up about something happining and it doesn't you will be telling each other it was because of them and that is not a good thing. Get to the hotel, go to your room take off all your cloths and head straight for the pool bar, jump in, get a drink or two and start talking to everyone. Just say hi, thats all it takes for people to talk to you.
    March 22-30 2013 Was our first trip of many to come. We had a blast with everyone, and I can see each trip getting better, and better.

    March 28th 2014 plans to be an even better trip then 2013!!

    March 27th 2015 hope to meet many old friends and make even more new friends

    March 24th to April 2nd. Runaway Repeaters & Swing Into Spring

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    Honestly it won't be hard for you to find a single man at hedo for a threesome. There is nothing wrong with going to Hedo with expectations, we do every year and those expectations are met every time.

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