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    Day or Night pass advice

    We are visiting Couples Negril again in March. We are interested in checking out Hedo on a day or night pass and wanted some advice on what might be best. We are taking things slowly and figured that just a fun night or day with no commitment of a week's stay might make the adventure easier and maybe open up some doors without 'kicking them in'.

    Are there any events that might be better or days/nights to look for?

    I understand that Hedo is a short cab ride from Couples.

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    Nick

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    If you like naked pool party stuff, go with the day pass. If you like theme dressing, dinner, sexy dancing, and provocative piano bar activities, go with the night pass. But either way, get involved early. Don't dally around for a few hours because all of the sudden the pass time is up and you'll wish you had just dove in sooner.

    If you go with the day pass, go right over to the nude bar and pool and stake out a place. Start conversation with people, and get involved.

    If you do the night pass, go for dinner and sit at one of the larger tables where a group or at least others will also sit down with you. This way you can start up conversation during dinner and fit in sooner. Don't be afraid to initiate conversation at Hedo. Everyone will talk to you, and many will be glad to show you around during your day/night pass time.

    Have fun!

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    Really if you are considering Hedo, take the plunge, we did and never looked back. Our first time to Jamaica we looked at a day/night pass at Hedo 3 but decided we might regret if we didn't go for the full week. We were right.
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    After staying at HEDO for 5 nights last year we passed back at night for two more nights.It was a blast.You know what they say,"There's no place like home!".

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    Do you think that a couple like us who is out for just a fun, sexy night with no intentions of swapping or physical engagement ( outside each other) will be uncomfortable or unwelcome on a night time pass at Hedo? We spend our whole days at Couples at the AN beach and we are FAR from prudish, but the evenings at CN are little boring.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Atf2424 View Post
    Do you think that a couple like us who is out for just a fun, sexy night with no intentions of swapping or physical engagement ( outside each other) will be uncomfortable or unwelcome on a night time pass at Hedo? We spend our whole days at Couples at the AN beach and we are FAR from prudish, but the evenings at CN are little boring.

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    You will be just fine..how you described yourselves is what Hedo is all about, doing what you want to do. Go and enjoy yourselves the way you want to and the foregone conclusion will be your next vacation will be at Hedo!
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    Many people are not swingers at Hedo.
    And its not an all out sexfest either (though it can be for brief times)
    Sexy dress, flirting, and fun, night pass for sure.
    And if you are asked to have some "fun" a polite no thank you will be fine.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CopNkitten View Post
    Many people are not swingers at Hedo.
    And its not an all out sexfest either (though it can be for brief times)
    Sexy dress, flirting, and fun, night pass for sure.
    And if you are asked to have some "fun" a polite no thank you will be fine.
    Cop..
    We are not swingers or in the lifestyle although our friends say we "are not vanilla"
    Been to Hedo 3x and looking forward to the 4th.

    Last year got walked unknowing into an orgy ... it was all good we just exited stage left. No harm -no foul.
    Gotta say that's another thing off the bucket list.

    There is many different facets of the lifestyle. Some have key parties some just love to be monogamous but run around and fool around in public.
    We are the latter but we hang well with everyone.

    The thing with Hedo is "no judgement"
    Everyone has a good time.


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    We aren't swingers but had a great week last time. If I'm reading your post right you won't have any problems with just being together. You won't be forced to join anyone and others won't join you...other than enjoying whatever you wish to show off. Hedo really is a place where you can do what you'd like and everyone is fine with it. Just be ready for wishing you booked a few nights at Hedo rather than just a night pass.
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    Quote Originally Posted by HedoJoe View Post
    We're not really swingers, but some of the people we have sex with are!
    Amen Brother Joseph!

    FTR, we are swingers, but some of our best memories at Hedo revolve around nothing more than laughing our asses off while nekkid and shooting the shit with really cool people from anywhere around the world. We Live in MA in the USA but have friends in Canada, England, South Africa, Australia... the list goes on. All courtesy of Hedo.
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    Okay, so I lied! We do agree that we get the best laughs when socializing naked at Hedo. One of the best was a vanilla couple whose wife did not want to get naked. She came to the pool every day in "a different swimsuit" made out of the same material as the emperor's new clothes and everyone complimented her on how it looked.
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    I would suggest you do a day and night, so you get a feel for the entire day... with that said, I would wait to go until the end of your Couples trip, so you dont either A. Regret not just going to HEDO for the entire week or B. Spend all your money on Day/Night passes everyday!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by lilgirlNlilboy View Post
    I would suggest you do a day and night, so you get a feel for the entire day... with that said, I would wait to go until the end of your Couples trip, so you dont either A. Regret not just going to HEDO for the entire week or B. Spend all your money on Day/Night passes everyday!!!
    Good Advice!
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    Thanks for the replies and advice. It sounds like a night pass would be a fun addition to a long weekend of AN sunbathing at Couples. A little excitement to look forward to is always a good thing. March is just too far away.

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