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    Newbie needs advice

    I am going with my boyfriend who has been many times. I know what it's all about. Concerned about the theme nights , just want to make sure I have everything I need. Please let me know about what I should pack.
    Thanks,
    Melissa

    PS- we will be there

    5/4-5/11

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    I am so excited for you that you are going for your first visit. Enjoy each and every moment (well maybe not the early morning headache...but that is quickly cured lol).
    Are you going with a group or did you just book yourselves. I ask because some of the groups have their "own" theme nights that differ from the resort theme nights.
    If you are following the resort theme night I find that if there are a couple that really interest you go into them with all your creativity and if there is others that don't interest you just spend a little time or wear a nice sundress or lingerie for that night. We just went with new people this year and the girl said "ahhh....I get this now that I have seen it" even though I went shopping, put together her costumes, and helped her - she didn't understand how much or little effort people put in.
    I love theme night and dress for all BUT some much better than others. And remember lingerie and sexy heels are great for any night lol
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    Thanks for the info...it was really helpful.

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    for us will be also the first time that we will be going for Hedo II anyone has any tips for us?

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    dress skimpy for the themes and have fun...we were newbies last year and we are heading back in 5 day.....just let loose and have fun
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    Quote Originally Posted by stuccoman View Post
    dress skimpy for the themes and have fun...we were newbies last year and we are heading back in 5 day.....just let loose and have fun
    Great advice for newbies, take all those sexy skimpy clothes you like to wear, dont be afraid to join the fun and games and you will have a great time. We well remeber our virgin trip, wow.
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    Quote Originally Posted by stuccoman View Post
    dress skimpy for the themes and have fun...we were newbies last year and we are heading back in 5 day.....just let loose and have fun
    If there is no way in hell that you would wear it to the grocery store, you can wear it at Hedo! If your outfit will fit into the toe of a fuck me pump, it is perfect for dinner at Hedo. If it is sheer, see through, mesh or fishnet, it is perfect for Hedo.
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    Quote Originally Posted by HedoJoe View Post
    If there is no way in hell that you would wear it to the grocery store, you can wear it at Hedo! If your outfit will fit into the toe of a fuck me pump, it is perfect for dinner at Hedo. If it is sheer, see through, mesh or fishnet, it is perfect for Hedo.
    Perfect advice! If you like to dress sexy, or always wanted to, this is your chance...if you always wanted to dress super slutty, even better!! And if you love wearing sky high pumps pack 'em! Sex it up and enjoy!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by sexydubaicpl View Post
    for us will be also the first time that we will be going for Hedo II anyone has any tips for us?

    Hello Dubai,

    Read up on this forum.
    Lots of great advice, stories and information.
    And most of all dont stress, you'll wish you discovered Hedo sooner.








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    Quote Originally Posted by lilmiss21 View Post
    I am going with my boyfriend who has been many times. I know what it's all about. Concerned about the theme nights , just want to make sure I have everything I need. Please let me know about what I should pack.
    Thanks,
    Melissa

    PS- we will be there

    5/4-5/11
    Hello lilmiss,

    -Less is more
    -Dress in layers, you can always take off a layer or two if things heat up or if....
    -You dont need to dress for any or all of the themes
    -Dress in a way that is going to make you feel comfortable/uncomfortable/sexy or.....
    -Dont stress over it!











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    hi ScubaSteve

    We cant wait to get our drinks and party :-)

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    Quote Originally Posted by lilmiss21 View Post
    I am going with my boyfriend who has been many times. I know what it's all about. Concerned about the theme nights , just want to make sure I have everything I need. Please let me know about what I should pack.
    Thanks,
    Melissa

    PS- we will be there

    5/4-5/11
    I like the idea that your outfit should fit in a ziplock baggie I always pack things that my husband would love me to wear but I would never dare wear at home and this seems to work well!

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    I use gallon ziplocs for less wrinkling and then also include a quart bag with the accessories for that outfit.

    Like everyone says, wear what you are comfortable in but the themes are fun to be a part of
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    And most importantly - have fun with it! Whatever you decide to wear (or not wear) go and have fun!
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