BBWs and BHMs

[chrisnsweets]

Hello all just a quick question how well are BBWs and BHMs accepted at the resorts? My wife and I are wanting to make the trip with some lifestyle friends next year but she is concerned about what people will think. I Told her that she will be the most beautiful looking woman there!! But you know what she said...lol " You are my husband you are supposed to say that". But I truely love her for who she is and she is the most beautiful woman in the world to me! So Please help us out if you can.
Thanks,
Chris

[bdonal69]

i can't really answer you since i haven't made my first trip yet but from variousposts i've seen all body styles and ages go to hedo so i wouldn't worry too much.

[zed]

My wife and I are both a bit bigger than the Hollywood norm and no one ever
made an issue of it or made us uncomfortable about it for the week we were at
HII. In fact, we saw some people that were bigger than us and it just didn't
seem to be anything that anyone thought about.

Its been said on this board that to see the average Hedo bodytype go to the
local grocery and look at all the patrons - and imagine them naked. That's
about as true as can be. (My problem now that I can't stop imagining what
all those people in the grocery look like naked after a week of hanging out on
the beach and at the pool with all those naked people.)

Yes, there are the model-types down there, but they don't get any special
treatment or interest just because of the way they looked. I would even go
so far as to say that there were quite a few big people that were party
magnets and quite a few GQ specials that were orbiting the party looking
for a way in. I know it sounds like a cliché, but I'm really believe that it's
more about attitude that appearance.

It was truly a totally unique experience to be standing totally naked, next to
my wife, also totally naked, three feet away from another couple, naked too,
and talk about the whether and music and movies and not once think about
how well they do or don't meet the beautiful people-standard or whether
they are thinking that about me.

If that's the only concern she has, she should go. At times it almost felt
too good to be true that we could have that much fun in an adult and
sexual way and not think about size at all, almost like a feeling of relief.

Mike

[critter2]

Ditto Zed, it is all about attitude,if you are friendly and having fun you are one of the true Hedonites no matter what size you are!!

[chrisnsweets]

Thanks so much for the replies! We are wanting to do a big trip for us early next year and this is one of the places that was tossed out there! I will show her what you all said and hiopefully that will sway her decision as to where I want to go...lol