1st time, help needed

[mr&mrs]

My wife is open to the possibility of having her 1st experience with another woman on our trip to Hedo in July 2012, Neither one of us is a swinger and have never done anything like this before. She would like to know how to send out a single that she is interested in another woman or how to tell if another woman is hitting on her.
Like I said, we are new to this and have been together for 25 years so we are way removed from the dating scene.

Any help, tips or advice would be greatly appreciated.

J&K

[4us2]

Very simple. Going tere is an easy way to make that happen. Go an make friends first. I don't suggest making a grand anouncement about it an I would be careful on how you tell others for ex on our frst trip my wife was open to same thing. While walking to the nude pool after meeting a couple an then asking us to come over when we got there the girl of the other couple went forward an told some other girls. the next thing we new there two woman on my wife. We weren't even in the tub for 2 min. There is alot of advise here if you search for it. Go an be your selfes. Take your time , when the time is wright it will come up in conversation gradually. There is some that are like sharks looking for prey in a way. You will have a great time no matter what. Just don't go with big expectations. What ever happens , happens. The main thing you leave together happy.

[4us2]

Search stuff like -" How do we police bad behavior at Hedo " an " what are your rules at Hedo ".
An this one http://www.adulttravelforum.com/foru...4-Hedo-manners

[mr&mrs]

Thanks, very interesting and helpful.

[Downunder Fun]

Hope this helps, it's a free ebook on starting swinging http://www.swingaus.com It might answer some questions about starting out and what to expect. Have a great trip!!!

[CopNkitten]

Also don't forget, after your sure someone is hitting on your wife, be sure to be upfront what your interested in and your limits.
Otherwise you might find yourself in an awkword situation where the other couple thinks your interested in swapping after or during your wifes g/g encounter.
Cop..

[NickandKitty]

Paul beat me to it. In reading back to the older threads about how to approach people I am am usually mortified and a little embarrassed for some people and their "schemes" to make something happen- we have always found the direct route best- and talk, talk, talk to make sure you are all on the same page.
Cheers!
Nick (and my wife of 9 years today, Kitty)tm

[chrisandlizvt]

Cheers!
Nick (and my wife of 9 years today, Kitty)tm

happy anniversary! our 9 year wedding anniversary was last week! congratulations!!

[CopNkitten]

Happy Anniversary
(rookies, lol)
Hope you guys have a great day and many more years to come.
Cop..

[NickandKitty]

Thanks guys- we both had to get it wrong once before we got it right... she doesn't like me telling people I have been married 16 years though lol... 9 years this time, we refer to the others as life lessons.
Nick (and the thoughtful Kitty)tm

[hedoforus]

congradulations on #9. also after a life lesson. lol

[phillygirl22]

Thanks guys- we both had to get it wrong once before we got it right... she doesn't like me telling people I have been married 16 years though lol... 9 years this time, we refer to the others as life lessons.
Nick (and the thoughtful Kitty)tm

Happy Anniversary!!
I look forward to adding some "post life lesson" years one day....
Always love to hear those success stories

[newby]

Happy anniversary, we will celebrate 31 years in august. As much as I would like my wife to experience another woman it is totally up to her. She was hit on twice by two women at Hedo in march during goddess week but declined. Both times the women understood and were polite. Great people at Hedo.

[rimelsp]

when are you going in July?