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    Hedo/Desire etiquette question

    Hi folks. My wife and I are looking to head to one of the clothing optional resorts in October as we've never tried one before but heard tons of great things about them.

    We're both "lifestylers" but not concerned if others are there for that or simply enjoying the options to be nude etc....so we've been to house parties, clubs etc. Having said that, we're both comfortable being naked etc but usually I'm not naked until either we're about to play or afterwards. At a nude resort where you might be lounging naked all day I wondered, is it poor form if you get an inadvertent erection in the areas where nudity is allowed? We're a very touchy, PDA couple and while we're not likely to publically "get it on" necessarily (I mean maybe if the scene was going that way, but not during the lounge around the pool time), there's a good possibility she might get me a bit warmed up and I'll sport one. Etiquette wise....what's the drill? I mean...I literally cannot imagine having a conversating with people poolside with a hard-on but if it happened, what's the appropriate way to handle it? Just ignore it's going on and try not to point it at people??

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    Can't speak for Desire as we don;t have first hand experience...But if this should happen, you have some options 1. point out to your wife what she has done to you, and it will be up to her to "correct" the situation 2. just ignore it an it will go away 3. wood is always a good place to hang a towel.
    But in reality this rarely happens in normal conversation unless you want it to.
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    Unless you are on the roof top hot tub area at Desire, PDA's are strickly forbitten, so you would have to hid your wood.

    At Hedo, you could just ask your wife to help you out (or a friend if you are both ok with that, lol). It does happen, but usually when I am play with him. It is nothing at Hedo to be standing in the pool around a table having some drinks and chatting and everyone touching their partner, happens all the time!! Just go for it, you'll love Hedo!!!
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    Hedo wouldn't even blink

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    Thanks for the feedback guys We're just so used to swing clubs like Trapeze in ATL that it had never occured to us, lol.

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    Doesnt matter where it happens.
    Let her do what she wants with it.
    The worst that will happen is you will be asked to stop or take it to your room.


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    Ok, so here's another question. We see all of these pics around and we'd like some keepsakes too but thought picture taking was verboten. Is it ok to take pics if you don't take them of other people without their permission in the nude areas?

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    Nude area is stickly forbitten. However, if you go down early in the morning when no one is around and let security know you are taking a few pictures, then it is usually ok. Otherwise it is ok to take pictures other places on the resort, just please be aware that no one is in it without their permission, even in the background
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    Thanks.

    So, here's another question but not one of etiquette....is there a significant difference between a room on the nude side and the prude side? If you're in a room on the prude side, is it that far of a walk to get to the nude pool?

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    It can be. The resort is laid out in somewhat of an arc, with the nude pool at one end, the clothing optional pool in the middle near the dining area, and the prude side stretching off the other way.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fangbangers View Post
    So, here's another question but not one of etiquette....is there a significant difference between a room on the nude side and the prude side? If you're in a room on the prude side, is it that far of a walk to get to the nude pool?
    Rooms are exactly the same no matter what side of the resort. Only difference, of course, are the Jacuzzi rooms. Even if you are placed in a Prude side room in what is referred to as the Sandals ZIP Code (closest to Sandals), you can walk to the nude pool in about 5-7 minutes. Some people will place all the things they need for the day in a bag, go the dining room for breakfast and then head to the nude beach.
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    Thanks guys. We're asking because looks like we might be stuck on the prude side due to circumstances....Sooo.....big resort eh? 5-7 minute walk!

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    It doesn't seem like that long when you are walking along the beach holding hands!!! Plus, there is a good chance you will get upgraded when you get there. If they are not at full occupancy the tend to keep people together so housekeeping doesn't have to go to all the buildings, plus it is a good time to do any work on the buildings that needs to be done
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    From the Sandals fence to the nude pool is a little over 3 foot ball fields (under 330 yards).
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    Hardly a walk at all -- plus maybe we'll get lucky and get upgraded once we're there. Thanks guys.

    Feel free to drop us Hedo virgins anything else you think we outta know!! :P

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