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    Quote Originally Posted by sabinaandscott View Post
    When we go to Hedo we're not going with expectation on hooking up and notching bedposts...as stated above there has to be some sort of connection...we're not looking for Ken/Barbie, but if we find them and we're all OK great...niether is age important. For us it's all about who you are...are you a good conversationalist, a nice personality, a sense of humor. We like to "get to know" someone a bit beforehand, and our best experiences have been the impromtu, something starts happening and do you want to take it back to the room kind of evening.

    There have been trips where nothing has happened and others where we;ve connected with a couple of people. We go with the idea of is something comes up and is agreeable to all...we go for it, if we don;t get the vibe on a trip...we enjoy the company.

    Things we avoid are the couples that have an agenda...and yes we've been on the "calendar" overhearing people set up other couples by their departure dates...i.e. Scott and Sabina are here till thursday..so lets do so and so tonight...we never hooked up...would have the first night, but found out later what they were about....pushy people that want to hook up right now...middle of the day...no thanks we're enjoying the sunshine...We also avoid couple with too many rules....like no kissing (a big rule with some people),oral only (seems like you stop short...not for us), He does my wife, I can't do his. Our own option is anything goes and what happens happens...but please share equally...
    Very well written!!!
    I've been to hedo 4 times and hooked up with couples, single females and also only the woman I went with...I've also enjoyed being a voyeur and exhibitionist. I like to smoke jamaican tobacco, drink red stripe and mentally decompress from my work, so the last thing I want on vacation is a sexual agenda. I was there in January and watched this couple for several days. They would split up and work the pool the entire day until one of them found a "hook up" or came back "empty handed". Then they would leave the pool area frustrated or sometimes with someone. I remember one night, there were several ladies having fun and she was following them around and they would not give here the attention she wanted, the husband had found someone to talk to and so I looked at her at one point and she was alone and pissed...they left soon thereafter. This agenda can ruin a vacation.

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    Doesnt sound like a vacation at all.
    Life is meant to be enjoyed.
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    I will have to say, "fuck squads" and people who want to suck/fuck anything that is willing. The 1st year I ran across the 'fuck squad' that's all they did. in the pool, hot tub, by the pool/hot tub, on the beach, general in front of everyone, a group of people were having sex.. and trading partners with in the group on a very regular basis. To each their own, I just don't want to be apart of it. Bi-guys are also off limits.

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    "fuck squads"...lol
    That does not sound like my cup of vodka either, but I'm stealing that phrase : )
    I already have a group in mind to tag with it...haha
    -HGL

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    1. Poor hygiene
    2. Creeper
    3. Grabbers
    4. Smokers (yuck!)
    5. Fight starters
    6. Fuck Squads (RT magjoy)

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    Your fuck squad sounds a lot like the people I would say "couple indiscriminately"- no standards at all- just looking to get off- no ty.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hollygolightly View Post
    "fuck squads"...lol
    That does not sound like my cup of vodka either, but I'm stealing that phrase : )
    I already have a group in mind to tag with it...haha
    -HGL
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    Overbearing, pushy, bragging, very drunk, just to name few reasons. Usually people are very polite , clean, conversationist and considerate, we like those people!

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    Basically, all the same reasons we say no while at home.
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    I agree with Cop life is meant to enjoy,moreso at Hedo,surround your self with fun people and you will have fun,
    gotta go then you'll know lol!

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    Judgemental people who go to swingers events to be titilated then judge the people who enjoy sex.
    "dressup couples"
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    What makes us say no is we are just not into you it is either your personality or looks usually personality.
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    Well We aint said yes yet. I know when I've enjoyed the drink to much I'm the first to say No. Because I can think of nothing worst than saying yes and willie is looking at My feet and snoring

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    Very unlucky fella some guys have the opposite problem

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    We have said no and we have said yes. There has been no problem in either. We play in public, so everyone at the hot tub from 5p to 2a knows that we play...Never had a problem where we had to say no more than once... normally we say no to who we feel are day passers. Never said no to anyone who is there for the week. In one case he came everyday and got a no everyday and would have cried..but we got to sit one evening at the dinner table and got to be friends and explained to him that the no was because we felt his partner was against it - and it would have created problem between them. We also say no to couples where the lady comes on strongly on my man and doesn't get a response - as my man has no interest in playing. You play or you don't play - most get it, except th eday passers who haven't had time to judge the situation.
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