To be honest I am a little trepadatious (think I have spelled that wrong!) to try it out before we go. Although maybe it would be easy. I don't know. I think the environment at Hedo lends itself to the 'if ya wanna, go for it' and 'if ya, don't no problem' type of thing, you know? But my hubby is kinda suggesting to maybe (not really pressuring) just throwing the idea out there to maybe try it out first before we go to see if we like that sort of thing. I kinda think it may be too personal seeing just another couple and kinda commiting to 'doing it' and maybe setting ourselves up for dissapointment. I know I want to go to Hedo, love to be nekkid and openly (not vulgur) sexual with my hubby, it sounds like a perfect place for us. And I think that we will end up trying a little soft swing (who knows, maybe twice!
if we like it), we want it to be mostly about us, we have been mom and dad for 14 years and it will be great to be lovers 24/7 again!
Has anyone else been in this circumstance and what did you do? And to you 'seasoned' swingers, what is your advice. I am wanting to do it, but worried that I'd not be able to follow through seeing as the environment one on one isn't as sexually charged or daring, you know? And I don't want to do it just to please my hubby or myself at the time, then regret it later.
did any of this make sense? Ugh, you should see the state of my head right now? I want to - I don't want to - I do know I want to go to Hedo, but the before hand meeting, not so sure...
Advice, and any will be greatly appreciated!
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