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    Nervous about booking a trip to Hedo II for single guy

    Hello all. I was looking at doing something completely different and do a Hedo resort.

    However I am very nervous. first its not something or lifestyle i ever done. But just curious and like to experience the area. And seems a good way to let it all go out and just relieve stress etc.

    as I would be going on my own and worried about not meeting people.
    so far have not really made contacts yet.

    I am worried of going there and everyone turns their back on me.

    THe other thing is. Well i am not a dirty single guy by any means. But worried that if i were to book and go there. It will be all a wiener festival. As in no good looking females at all. as i heard more guys go there then female. so chance of very little scenery.

    so i am at a cross roads.

    What can you all recon?

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    More couples go than anything. But single males and females do go.
    Read many threads and reports and it basically comes down to acting right, showing respect.
    Don't go expecting to hook and have an orgy week, and you will probably find yourself doing just fine.
    There are many threads on this, read read read.
    And by all means, if you are that kind of guy, respectful and just want to have fun, then go. Hedo is a place for everyone.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mr. steak View Post
    Hello all. I was looking at doing something completely different and do a Hedo resort.

    However I am very nervous. first its not something or lifestyle i ever done. But just curious and like to experience the area. And seems a good way to let it all go out and just relieve stress etc.

    as I would be going on my own and worried about not meeting people.
    so far have not really made contacts yet.

    I am worried of going there and everyone turns their back on me.

    THe other thing is. Well i am not a dirty single guy by any means. But worried that if i were to book and go there. It will be all a wiener festival. As in no good looking females at all. as i heard more guys go there then female. so chance of very little scenery.

    so i am at a cross roads.

    What can you all recon?



    From one single guy to another...

    Think of Hedo as a bar. The exception is that everyone is naked.
    Ask yourself how you would act in a bar.
    If you were to walk up to a woman in a bar and grab her ass, I hope you would expect a slap in the face, a kick in the balls or worse from her boyfriend, husband and or bouncer.


    Hedo is no different except you are there all week.
    If you make an ass of yourself at a bar, you can leave.
    Not that you cant leave Hedo (I never want to) it would just be a shame to need to leave or be asked to leave.
    Make an ass of yourself at Hedo and as you state above "everyone turns their back on me" could be a real possibility.


    Hedo can be a great stress reliever if you go with the right mind set.
    If you are going for the purpose of having fun and relaxing, being polite, respectful and meeting some of the best people from all over the world, then read more on this forum and make sure before booking a trip.

    If your objective is just to get laid or ogle the good looking females you refer to as "scenery", you might not fit in and your fears of being ostricized may be real.

    I would agree that it might be easier to fit in if you bring a girlfriend with you though that doesnt guarantee anything. A guy who acts like an idiot is still an idiot whether he has a woman on his arm or not.
    Being an idiot is not limited to the "single guy".

    I also agree that there are 10 times more single guys than single women there.

    Would you watch a woman, wait until her other half gets up to use the bathroom then rush over and talk to her?
    Would you touch anyone uninvited?
    Would you...
    Would you...
    I dont want to give you or anybody else a set of standards or rules that they should or need to live up to.
    If you dont know, you shouldnt go.


    Having said all that, if you are a good person, friendly, respectful and have basic social skills, you can still have fun there.
    Other single guys do.


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    Scuba has it nailed. The biggest way to be shunned is to wait till the male side of a couple leaves then hit on the female side. Happend to us last year and the guy got a good hard look from several people but he touched without asking. That is a big no no at hedo.
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    Well Said Cop and Scuba...I go as a single guy with no expectations but to meet some great people and be naked, have a great time and go to bed thinking ...."wow, this is the greateast place on earth"

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    Amen, Scuba. Too bad most guys in BARS at home don't think like that.
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    Rule #1 All Men Are Pigs
    (thats why I have one tatooed on my ass, lol)
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    Quote Originally Posted by CopNkitten View Post
    Rule #1 All Men Are Pigs
    (thats why I have one tatooed on my ass, lol)
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    LMAO...do you really have a pig tattooed on your ass?

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    Quote Originally Posted by flfitguy View Post
    LMAO...do you really have a pig tattooed on your ass?
    Please dont ask him that.
    He is only going to show us again..... LOL


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    To Be Clear

    Hedo is NOT a free for all where single guys/gals can go to get F**KED..!!!!
    If you're going for the sole purpose to get F**KED ---- Please don't consider this resort.
    If you cannot appreciate the beauty of ALL body types (again this is not a SEX RESORT-LOL) this may not be the resort for you.

    Scubasteve & Cop are Pure Gentleman through & through...Take your cues from them!!

    This is the 1st time I've ever spoken harshly about the single guy subject. But, your post rubbed me the wrong way.
    If I felt as though I were on display ONLY as eye candy I would not be comfortable to have as much fun as I do & forget about this lousy world.
    It is a social place...exactly as though you were to have clothes on...The only difference is...you get a full body tan & meet the most wonderful people this world has to offer.

    Cop: Some men actually are pigs & I want to see that tat!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by fun4all View Post
    Scubasteve & Cop are Pure Gentleman through & through...Take your cues from them!!

    We never met Scuba Steve but we sure as hell can vouch for Cop
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    Quote Originally Posted by marcncleo69 View Post
    We never met Scuba Steve but we sure as hell can vouch for Cop

    Met him in April last year he is ok i guess . Now that MaryW lady he hangs with she a hotty

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    They're lieing to you. It IS a sausage fest. Some bring great big polish sausage, some little vienna weinies. There are very few women that go. It's kind of like a gay bar, but everyone is naked. They do have an outdoor shower close to the nude pool, but heaven forbid, whatever you do DON'T DROP THE SOAP! Make sure to bring your binoculars to gawk from afar, and a camera. Don't worry about the "no photography signs", theyre only meant for the tourists.


    I'm sorry, I had to do it. ^^^^ What everyone else already said!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dancing2some View Post
    They're lieing to you. It IS a sausage fest. Some bring great big polish sausage, some little vienna weinies. There are very few women that go. It's kind of like a gay bar, but everyone is naked. They do have an outdoor shower close to the nude pool, but heaven forbid, whatever you do DON'T DROP THE SOAP! Make sure to bring your binoculars to gawk from afar, and a camera. Don't worry about the "no photography signs", theyre only meant for the tourists.


    I'm sorry, I had to do it. ^^^^ What everyone else already said!
    No need to be sorry....Your answer is perfect & exactly how I should have replied. Thanks for the grnz. I need to relax & veg-out a bit more. Maybe it's about time for a vacation. LOL
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    Quote Originally Posted by fun4all View Post
    If you're going for the sole purpose to get F**KED ---- Please don't consider this resort.

    Unless you take a girlfriend or wife --then it's a 4x a day party with her! Thank you Millions!


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