Hedo virgins here....a few questions please

[mido & cricket]

Just finished packing for our trip on Friday and just a couple things still nagging at me... One, Are people generally hard bodies or all shapes & sizes? Hubby and I have gone to Au Natural beaches before and have no problem being nude around others but that was in a neutral (no PDAs) area, are Hedo goers generally accepting? (I'm a bit overweight).

Second, we are going with the Kama Sutra group..we have never been part of the lifestyle crowd but have talked about it many times and would like to experiment a bit, have we bitten off more than we can chew in picking this week to visit? BTW, we have been married almost 20 years, and have no problems with trust or jealousy issues.

Thirdly, how the hell do you fit all your shoes in the given baggage allowance? LOL

[ScubaSteve]

Hello Newbie

1) There is a saying on this forum that if you walk into your nearest WalMart you will see the same type of people at the resort.
All types, shapes and sizes.
I dare you to find a place on earth with less judgemental people than Hedo.

2) I dont know anyone from the KamaSutra group personally but, dont worry about going with a lifestyle group. A polite "no thanks" is all that is needed if you ever feel uncomfortable.
You guys will have a great time.

3) Ive heard of some women bringing an extra bag OR TWO just for shoes.


Cheers
Have a great time.

[mido & cricket]

Thanks Steve, very excited to be going, 3 more sleeps!

[ScubaSteve]

Thanks Steve, very excited to be going, 3 more sleeps!

Hopefully you will remember enough for a trip report when you get back.




Cheers

[HedoRUs]

I think you will be pleasantly surprised at the wide assortment of 'body types'. One of the unexplainable beauties of the place is that literally no one cares, or is even the least bit judgemental, in how you look. I too am a little fluffier than what I would prefer, but it's all good once you get there! (I think it's something in the Rum perhaps?!?) Enjoy! Enjoy!! Enjoy!!

respect every time!

[flfitguy]

The beauty of Hedo is that no one cares what you look like, whom youre with, whom you want or do not want to be with...It's a no judgement zone. You will be fine. Steve said it best...a polite "no thank you" is all that is required.

[up4fun]

We are also there on saturday first timers too and yes nervous about getting naked, also carrying a few extra pounds than id rather. So see ya there!

[mido & cricket]

Thanks all, trip report to follow if I can actually remember any of it :P

[flfitguy]

We are also there on saturday first timers too and yes nervous about getting naked, also carrying a few extra pounds than id rather. So see ya there!

you look great. you will have a great time.