Why just the ladies

[biguyandgirl]

I hope this isn't a bad question but it seems there is thread after thread and group after group who go to hedo for Women-on-Women action. Don't get me wrong, that's great stuff (and my wife would agree), but is there any bi-guy stuff? I know the island's legal system works against it, but it seems that anything can and does happen within the gates.

Is this sort of thing frowned upon by the other guests? My wife goes, meets other women and has a good time (I do too). But I'm wondering if there are other bi couples there where both partners are into bi stuff.

[ajv767fo]

I ain't touching this one...no pun intended.

Greg and Jen

[phillygirl22]

I think it's just a cultural thing. A lot of people on here, even those who talk about "girl on girl action," are "hedo-stylers," not true lifestylers....

And while true lifestylers are generally accepting of ALL things, this is not something I sense is accepted, and not something I have personally seen exhibited in my three trips.

NOW, that being said, perhaps this is something that gets discussed and acted on in the privacy of the room. Who knows? I think so.
Then again, I think all humans are bisexual, and it's just society that has molded us otherwise...

[Lewis&Alice]

This is done very quietly but we have seen openly bi men at Hedo.

[spankme422]

Lol Greg !

[biguyandgirl]

This is done very quietly but we have seen openly bi men at Hedo.

I'm into guy/guy stuff, and I admit that I wouldn't necessarily want to see two guys going at it on the side of the whirlpool.

Too bad there isn't a way to figure out which guys are into that sort of thing. At hedo, as with the rest of the world, most guys don't take kindly to being hit on by other guys.

Just as I like seeing my wife with other women, my wife says she'd be in to seeing me with another guy, but the opportunity never presents itself. And outside of hedo my wife doesn't get into other women. Something about the atmosphere flips her switches.

[CeeNCee]

Once you get your dates set up, maybe you can put it out there that you are looking for bi male play during those dates, and just have people contact you privately then you can talk before the trip. I don't know how easy it's gonna be to connect with men once you get to Hedo if you have not made some plans beforehand. I mean, I wouldn't suggest you approach guys once you get there. It is generally frowned upon in the lifestyle and some men take the offer as personal insults. The guys that would be interested aren't going to make it obvious because they will have to keep their hetero-hats on for appearances.

[biguyandgirl]

Once you get your dates set up, maybe you can put it out there that you are looking for bi male play during those dates, and just have people contact you privately then you can talk before the trip. I don't know how easy it's gonna be to connect with men once you get to Hedo if you have not made some plans beforehand.

Brilliant!
January 29 - Feb 6, 2012
If you're a bi couple, pvt us.

The guys that would be interested aren't going to make it obvious because they will have to keep their hetero-hats on for appearances.

Those hats are what I pack with all the extra space in the suitcase.

[CeeNCee]

Brilliant? Lol, thanks! That's a big change from what people usually say about me!

[bibabe]

Brilliant? Lol, thanks! That's a big change from what people usually say about me!

I would say brilliant....along with sweet,loving and unbelievabley sexy....xoxo

[CopNkitten]

I would say brilliant....along with sweet,loving and unbelievabley sexy....xoxo

Could not agree more.
Cop..

[biguyandgirl]

Brilliant? Lol, thanks! That's a big change from what people usually say about me!

No problem.

[ajv767fo]

Lol Greg !

I know my audience, Jen...or Jeremy..or whomever you are.


Greg and Jen

[CeeNCee]

Thanks Bibabe and Cop. Hedo won't be the same without you guys.

[CopNkitten]

I'm thinking with the name biguyandgirl on here, people can pretty much figure out what your looking for and should contact you, lol.
Cop..