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    What are your rules at Hedo?

    What kind of rules do you have while having fun at Hedo? List your top five if you have that many.....

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    Our rules at hedo are the same as every day life I guess... though they are put into practice far more often at hedo than they are here:
    1. Each of us gets to "go big" whenever we want, but only one of us at a time, and we have to give the other warning.
    2. No "taking one for the team".
    3. If it's time to play, we play in the same place.
    4. If there's any doubt we put the brakes on, have a sidebar, and continue, or not.
    Simple enough I guess- things go pretty smoothly normally.
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    If we're talking about "playing", our rules are the same at Hedo as they are at home too:

    1. We play together
    2. We check to make sure each other is comfortable
    3. We have to both be into it

    Additional "rule" for Hedo:

    We can each be as crazy as we want to be - we have no jealousy issues.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CandG View Post
    If we're talking about "playing", our rules are the same at Hedo as they are at home too:

    1. We play together
    2. We check to make sure each other is comfortable
    3. We have to both be into it
    Additional "rule" for Hedo:

    We can each be as crazy as we want to be - we have no jealousy issues.
    You hit the nail on the head! Those are our rules too!

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    Wow..Rules seem to be pretty similar...I don;t have to type ours anymore just look above.
    We first went to Hedo with a list of twelve...wrote them out and posted them on the back of the door to read on the way out of the room...The "list" came down the first day and we had to have a huddle to figure out our new set of rules and simplified the list. The longer version was just way too detailed and didn;t match the reality of Hedo and having fun.
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    1. We both have to be there (not necessarily both involved, just there)
    2. No kissing of the opposite sex, but I (Angela) can kiss as many girls as I want
    3. No penetration (that one has been discussed several times, but as of now it still remains as we are both happy with it)
    4. We have a signal if not comfortable, a simple pinch to the arm (have not had to use it yet and can't see having to, but good to have).
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    Like most everyone else, our rules are the same ones we have here at home. Very similar to Nick & Kitty.
    1) We both always play together.
    2) Nobody will "take one for the team"
    3) Whatever happens, happens. ( Jealousy is not an issue for us)
    4) If one of us becomes uncomfortable, we walk away from the situation.

    Other than those, I don't think we have any other rules. These rules just get way more practice at Hedo than here at home. Which we think is a good thing!
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    Pretty much what everyone else says.
    1. We play together
    2. We check to make sure each other is comfortable
    3. We have to both be into it


    Except no penetration when kitten is napping, lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CopNkitten View Post
    Except no penetration when kitten is napping, lol.
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    Did you try that before and got into trouble? lol
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    Rules? Rules? We don't need no stinking rules!

    Okay actually we do but the list is pretty short.

    1. Full disclosure - not a lot of limits but all parties must be informed
    2. No one does anything unless #1 has been met and everyone is comfortable.
    3. Have fun!

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    Rules???????




    Ok, similar to everyone else....teamwork, there is no I in team
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    Quote Originally Posted by CandG View Post
    If we're talking about "playing", our rules are the same at Hedo as they are at home too:

    1. We play together
    2. We check to make sure each other is comfortable
    3. We have to both be into it

    Additional "rule" for Hedo:

    We can each be as crazy as we want to be - we have no jealousy issues.


    Ok,..we're down with these three rules, so to speak...

    But being Hedo virgins, we were kind of wondering about this crazy exception... Sounds interesting. ...


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    Those are all great rules. My wife and I need to talk about are rules before we go.

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    Quote Originally Posted by azcuriosity View Post
    What kind of rules do you have while having fun at Hedo? List your top five if you have that many.....
    As a single dude, I generally follow these rules and always have a blast.

    1. Talk to as many couples as you can.
    2. Always keep what you see and hear to yourself. Don’t be a tattletale.
    3. Don’t touch without being invited.
    4. Always include male half of couple in conversations.
    5. Prefer “soft play” and if “hard play” is required, give me 30 minutes for a Viagra fix.
    6. Drink alcohol moderately so you can remember what happened.
    It all started when God created the big bang 13.81 Billion years ago.

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    From another single guy:

    1. Condom always
    2. No back door action
    3. No drugs
    4. No prostitutes
    5. No bondage

    a few others, but those are the top 5
    If you must choose between two evils, pick the one you've never tried before

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