Ok for the ladys

**Buck** · 02-14-2011, 05:15 PM

OK so i walked into the bathroom the other day to find my beautiful wife in the shower. Upon closer inspection she was rubbing one out ( in a mans terms sorry ). I watched until she was done and gave her a standing ovation

. I asked her if she had fun and the smile said it all. I said to her what were you thinking about when she was doing it she said nothing it just felt good. I called bullshit and she said its true.

So my question to you ladys is can you masterbate with out any visual or mental stimualtion or is it about the feeling? I think most men myself included need visual or mental stimulation or both. Please can someone set me straight. No pun intented

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Oh not trying to offend anyone if so i apologize.

Buck

**mac_r_a** · 02-14-2011, 05:50 PM

I do not think of anything when I am pleasuring myself but how it feels. I know men are different and need that stimulation, but most woman don't (at least few I have talked to about it).

**chitownJA** · 02-14-2011, 06:02 PM

I would call BULLSHIT...but I can't. I know everyone is different. I have to have a visual, absolutely have to. Usually I think about crazy stuff that I would absolutely never do in real life. Hubby, doesn't understand, says if it turns you on that much then we should do it but I am so shy I just can't. So I'll keep it to myself and in my mind and no one has to know but me. Less embarrassing that way.

**Buck** · 02-15-2011, 08:13 AM

Well thats one and one. Thanks for the replies

Buck

**jeaniendevildog** · 02-25-2011, 03:16 PM

Originally Posted by chitownJA

I would call BULLSHIT...but I can't. I know everyone is different. I have to have a visual, absolutely have to. Usually I think about crazy stuff that I would absolutely never do in real life. Hubby, doesn't understand, says if it turns you on that much then we should do it but I am so shy I just can't. So I'll keep it to myself and in my mind and no one has to know but me. Less embarrassing that way.

I'm with Chitown. I visualize all the crazy stuff I would like to do, but haven't had the opportunity to do yet. I am a naughty girl, though, I WOULD actually do them.

**Corbin&velvet** · 02-25-2011, 05:56 PM

velvet tell me that just the thought of me watching is enough to send her over the top, even if I'm not home!
Corbin

**bibabe** · 02-25-2011, 06:47 PM

Ok my two cents....I always visualize something. At least for me I enjoy it more. I am bi so most times I think of another woman or me,my hubby and another woman. But that's just me.

**lauraff7** · 02-26-2011, 08:35 AM

If I am using one of my toys, that's all I need, the feeling is so great.

Without a toy, I need to fantasize... my hubby and I have tried just about everything, but I can usually come up with [I]something[I] really impossible, like a slave in a 15th century harem type thing, to fantasize about!

Laura

**Curvygirl** · 03-18-2011, 09:57 AM

I don't need to visualize anything, or think of some fantasy.... it feels great, and that's all it takes for me!

**funcouple_nepa** · 03-18-2011, 10:02 AM

Ill have to get Kelly to reply tot his post... but I saw her once use our purple friend and it almost killed me to sit back and enjoy the show... and I didnt for long ended up with a mouth full of sweetness.
Mike, the munchy muncher.
Voulez vous coucher avec moi ce soir

**Elle & Jaybyrd** · 03-18-2011, 08:37 PM

Originally Posted by chitownJA

I would call BULLSHIT...but I can't. I know everyone is different. I have to have a visual, absolutely have to. Usually I think about crazy stuff that I would absolutely never do in real life. Hubby, doesn't understand, says if it turns you on that much then we should do it but I am so shy I just can't. So I'll keep it to myself and in my mind and no one has to know but me. Less embarrassing that way.

EXACTLY!!!!!!!!! Although, for me now it's not really a matter of being shy (some of it is), it's that what I'm visualizing would be physically uncomfortable for me, but in my mind, it feels GREAT!

**frazzled** · 03-22-2011, 08:50 PM

Im a newbie to the group, but this topic. seemed as good as any to jump on in and get wet. Female, 33, trying to get the hubby to try some new stuff . I dont need to think of anything, just the feeling is enough, but once in awhile i'd like a visual. I'm a big fan of girl on girl action, the more amateur the better. Not a big fan of "produced"porn.

**funcouple_nepa** · 03-22-2011, 09:26 PM

no visuals needed here Buck,, stimulate and its all about the sensations and pleasure... oooh making me feel all stimaulted thinking about it good thing mike is by my side...
Kelly the stimulated virgin