Do we "fit" in at Hedo? (NWS picture inside - do I need to say that here? :)

**Dick_Hunga** · 12-12-2010, 01:16 PM

Hi, all!

My wife and I are planning a trip somewhere in spring of 2011 and wonder if Hedonism is the place.

Here's the thing: Our thing is showing off and sharing my goods (CFNM, for a name).

That means she might want me to wear something like this:

to the nude beach. Or "male slut wear" to dinner.

Or that she might get a kick out of making me hard and leaving it that way.

She'd also offer (not at the pool, we know) others the chance to touch and tease me.

Somehow, that kind of thing seems foreign to everything we've read on these forums.

We'd hate to offend people and/or be disappointed.

Thanks for any input.

**hedo69** · 12-12-2010, 02:28 PM

The only places where you need to cover up while you had it on would be in the Dining Room and on the prude side. I have something similar that I'll be bringing for PJ night next month.

Also, the nude pool would be an ideal place for the ladies to enjoy it further.

Just pick your places and go have a blast.

See you there 28 Dec 2010 to 5 Jan 2011

**Lewis&Alice** · 12-12-2010, 06:40 PM

Go have fun do what you want. Everyone is different and you might find like minded people who are into what you are into.

**HedoIIIlover** · 12-12-2010, 07:03 PM

Greetings,
Yes, come on join us March 26-April 2 with the Wild Woman Vacations and Hedo Amigos.
I for one will be talking with your Wife about how to tie that and others. I am bringing lots of rope and my wife will also be in rope a number of times that week. I also under stand we may not be the only ones with rope there.

Feel free to send me a message if you want more info.
Sir

**littlelake** · 12-12-2010, 07:54 PM

Hedo 11 verses Hedo 111, which is better? We like to be nude, not into swinging, swapping, or watching...into nude and lots of fun with other couples and lots of romance for us...are we on the wrong track???

**freddy** · 12-12-2010, 08:06 PM

hey little lake, theres other threads on this question but for your money its best to go with hedo 2 cause 3 aint there anymore. its a silly family fun resort. plus ya dont have to be into the swing thing to fit in at hedo. being nekkid and havin fun is what its all about.

**Calliope** · 12-12-2010, 08:23 PM

Well your choice of screen name makes us wonder...
On our first trip we saw a handsome young male who spent a lot of time stroking himself. Nobody bugged him about it, but nobody talked to him either, he spent a lot of time alone, and he seemed to be quite content with that.
If you want to be admired, well you might be better off going to Sandals with a speedo. Sandals people are real voyeurs (they come by in thier boats to gawk a lot).
Please be prepared for your penis to be ignored at Hedo. Your personality might make some friends, but your penis will be well... just another dick in the crowd.

**funfortwo** · 12-13-2010, 08:36 AM

You definitely won't be "laughed off the property". We've seen plenty of things that might be considered far more odd than what you are into. It may not be a turn-on for others, but if it is for you and your wife, then go for it. I can't imagine any other resort in the world where you could pull this off, so Hedo might have to be the place. Don't go during a week when kink groups are there or what you do might be so tame no one would even take notice of you. Have fun, live out your fantasies.

**copsandrobbers** · 12-13-2010, 10:15 AM

We will be there March 22-29 Come visit h2, best people on Earth!!!!! And this week is clothing optional even on the prude side!

**CopNkitten** · 12-14-2010, 08:32 AM

Go to H2, relax and enjoy yourselves, spring is the best time to go.

**Wyoswift** · 12-14-2010, 10:53 AM

Originally Posted by Offshore

If you want to be laughed off the property, then wear that.

Most people that go to Hedo aren't judge mental.....But I guess that there are a few....
I have seen something like that the last 2 times we have gone...GO and have a good time...YOU WILL NOT BE LAUGHED OFF THE PROPERTY!!!!

**yarray** · 12-14-2010, 11:21 AM

Hi Offshore,

I think you have phrased one of Hedo's defining comments.

"The only opinion you need to be concerned with is your own."

Top man you are

**funcouple_nepa** · 12-14-2010, 12:11 PM

Go have fun be yourselves, thast all me and my man are planning on doing, from what I gather no one will laugh at you for having fun.. being respectful and being open...