The Hedo Way !

[NorthernBoy]

Thanks for the tip about the ignore list....it works great!

I sure hope We are not on anyone's ignore list...

That would be devastating...

Maybe we could kiss and make up if we only knew...

NB

[luvnlife_az]

I sure hope We are not on anyone's ignore list...

That would be devastating...

Maybe we could kiss and make up if we only knew...

NB

With you on that one!!!!

Now I'm curious about this ignore thing and how it works......

[NickandKitty]

Since you asked-
User CP
Edit ignore list- on the left side about half way down.
And since you were both wondering in our case it is neither of you guys.
Nick (and the hard to ignore Kitty)tm

[jeaniendevildog]

The forum, which is dominated by male posters, has a definite "don't discourage any female from going to Hedo for any reason" vibe, and a "discourage any man who doesn't ask his question just right" vibe. I'm sure some of this is to keep the competition down and better their odds of getting vajaja.

I hate to say it, but every once in a while Moorerotic comes out with something I DO agree with.

[luvnlife_az]

Since you asked-
User CP
Edit ignore list- on the left side about half way down.
And since you were both wondering in our case it is neither of you guys.
Nick (and the hard to ignore Kitty)tm

Thanks guys! And thank you for all of your very infomative posts - they have been very helpful.

Wish we would've found this site prior to our first two trips - sure is going to be nice getting there and already (kind of) knowing some of the hedonites.

[Calliope]

Thanks for the tip about the ignore list....it works great!

Ignoring is bliss?

[Moorerotic]

I sure hope We are not on anyone's ignore list...

That would be devastating...

Maybe we could kiss and make up if we only knew...

NB

NB, I doubt that you're on anyone's ignore list. I'm sure I'm on the most ignore lists, and no, it doesn't bother me.

[Moorerotic]

I hate to say it, but every once in a while Moorerotic comes out with something I DO agree with.

Well thankfully I'm not on your ignore list! Yet.

[mac_r_a]

The ignore list still doesn't really ignore them, you can see that they said something on a thread it just takes out what they said, so then you get curious, lol.

[Moorerotic]

Well thankfully I'm not on your ignore list! Yet.

The ignore list still doesn't really ignore them, you can see that they said something on a thread it just takes out what they said, so then you get curious, lol.

Cool. I guess I'll have to make my replies worth their time.

[aliyt]

The forum, which is dominated by male posters, has a definite "don't discourage any female from going to Hedo for any reason" vibe, and a "discourage any man who doesn't ask his question just right" vibe. I'm sure some of this is to keep the competition down and better their odds of getting vajaja.

for the sake of discussion...
(agreeing with it maybe male dominated forum)
do you think most of the posters on this forum are single guys?
i feel like the majority of repeated posters are half of a couple.

in regards to the the single male situation - unfortunately people tend to write/talk/remember about bad situation. there seems to be quite a few bad situations with single guys.
I havent heard about a single bad situation involving single women.

[NorthernBoy]

NB, I doubt that you're on anyone's ignore list. I'm sure I'm on the most ignore lists, and no, it doesn't bother me.

Your not on my ignore list. Nobody is for that matter. Personal attacks from anyone (I am note claiming anyone has) or comments would hurt anyone but even if they were leveled at me I guess I would want to read them.

Take the small nut sack comment... Hey just let it go and enjoy the day... Right. I am really glad it wasn't my nut sack they were talking about though...

Wewwww

NB

[Moorerotic]

for the sake of discussion...
(agreeing with it maybe male dominated forum)
do you think most of the posters on this forum are single guys?
i feel like the majority of repeated posters are half of a couple.

in regards to the the single male situation - unfortunately people tend to write/talk/remember about bad situation. there seems to be quite a few bad situations with single guys.
I havent heard about a single bad situation involving single women.

There are a decent number of single male here, but the majority of the major posters are definitely the male half of a couple.

Again it would go against the principals of these guys to mention bad female behavior, even though it does occur. It just has a different favor.

For instance, any male can be perceived to be a physical threat to anyone, that's just a fact of the human condition, but a woman is generally only a physical threat to someone she knows well. The two instances I know of at Hedo where a woman physically assaulted someone, both times the woman was assaulting the person she came to Hedo with. Also woman are more likely to use bad behavior like creating drama to get two men to fight over them. That way the woman came claim victim status ever though she is the instigator.

[Moorerotic]

Your not on my ignore list. Nobody is for that matter. Personal attacks from anyone (I am note claiming anyone has) or comments would hurt anyone but even if they were leveled at me I guess I would want to read them.

Take the small nut sack comment... Hey just let it go and enjoy the day... Right. I am really glad it wasn't my nut sack they were talking about though...

Wewwww

NB

My ignore list is kept in my brain, it's far more affective than a crude computer program. Plus even the craziest people on this site have something good to say from time to time. OK maybe not !@#$%^&, but his rants are easy to ignore.

People shouldn't be so thin-skinned about these so-called personal attacks. It's just words from someone you don't know and may never meet, so they can't be taken too seriously.

[aliyt]

but the bad behavior we are referring to isnt really the physically threatening kind.
from my experience at hedo i never once felt physically threatened. (mind you ive only been once)
its leering or trying to involve themselves in a situation they werent invited into.
womens bad behavior is usually drama i concur however it usually is emotionally related themselves and insecurities in general - im not sure you can extrapolate to something as specific as "drama to get to men to fight over her" - yes that might happen but probably only as often as the single guy having sex with the single woman at hedo.