love rule 1 and 2 Brave Heart...the rest is up to you
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love rule 1 and 2 Brave Heart...the rest is up to you
In the beginning we had a lot of rules but over the years they have come down to the basics you have read here:
Both have to be into it
Both have to be in the same place
No "taking one for the team"
Other then that whatever happens, happens. We have been together long enough to know what the other is thinking/worried about.
We have been married for 20 years and we have had a lot of rules, but losing them along the way. Our main rule is to gooooo slooooow. We have a lot to lose with 20 years and wonderful kids. We are not willing to make the wrong moves, but our definition of rules are not as strict as they used to be:)
Rule 1, I do not drink till late at night, puts me to sleep.
Rule 2, WE talk about anything that is new to us before we DO anything new.
Rule 3, WE look at each other and get a nod or head shake if another person wants to get involved with us and respect that head motion with out question.
Rule 4, we leave the phones OFF all week, They get turned on after we are back in the USA and well past customs.
Rule 5, I look out for shell fish in the food so she does not get sick.. I eat lots of it there as I never get any here.
:) guess I have some trust issues, that or perhaps I've seen one too many movies where the guy gets tied up --- and something unexpected (and not the good surprise either) happens. For the avoidance of doubt, I have no problem with the girl being tied up, just not me hehehe
I (Jerry) thought I was the only one. Appreciate hearing that. For me it's not so much trust as maybe claustrophobia. Tried a roller coaster last year and had to get out before it started. No fear of heights or spinning around, just being restrained. Go figure...But Judy on the other hand.....;)
rules:
No water
no food after midnight.
no bright light.
Oh crap sorry I was looking for the gremlin thread...My bad!
Ok, one example of the "crazy exception"...In April after lots of Vodka/Ting's, G decided she was going to be the official "greeter" of men coming into the nude pool down the steps by the cool jacuzzi. My job was to keep squirting the silicone lube into her hand for the "greetings". Many guys made more bathroom trips than usual that afternoon. LOL She loved it and so did I (and so did they). In other words, a great time was had by all!
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