Originally Posted by
cowgirl
Hedo doesn't need to exclude singles. Many singles, men and women behave properly and deserve the chance to vacation at Hedo. There are people who are part of a couple, man/ woman that misbehave, and they are welcomed at Hedo.
Unfortunately, there are some bad apples who spoil things for the rest of us. Not sure what the answer is, but it ISN'T banning single men.
One idea is for the rest of us to really step up and verbalize to the offenders that what they are doing is wrong and unacceptable. Not just move to the other side of the pool or ignore the behavior or hide.
But, that is hard too, as none of us want to have confrontations during our own special vacations.
We all also need to do a better job of reporting offenders to security so that they can step in.
Perhaps, if the collective "we" cracks down on the offenders, they will realize that they are not welcome and stop coming to Hedo. It takes a village obviously to change things.
In the meantime, I will enjoy what Hedo has to offer and not waste time stressing about the parts that aren't perfect.