Desire, Hedo or Cruise?

Okay, we are 50 years old, been married for 30 years in May 17, and looking to do something out of our comfort zone. We have talked about checking out the swinging scene but so far have just registered at a couple lifestyle sites. We thought maybe celebrating our 30 years at Hedo II, one of the resorts in Mexico, or a adult cruise. Would like to be exposed to the lifestyle a little bit without being overwhelmed, but I do think after 30 years we are open to something new. Any advice for our first trip and getting out of our comfort zone? Thanks

A couple of trains of thought. A lifestyle cruise is a great way to have a sexy cruise, visit some cool ports and dip a toe in if you're keen. They usually sell out and have upwards of around 3,000 people on them. A mix of people (nudists, swingers, vouyers etc.) on them but everyone has a sexy attitude. Large enough space that you can find quiet areas and keep to yourselves if it gets too much. If you want something a little quieter, Desire Pearl is probably a good introduction. Has a noisy and quiet ent of the pool as well as beach beds so you can choose where to position yourselves and watch the action. Chat to some people, and know that you don't have to do anything you don't want to do or you haven't discussed.

You should try and stay within your boundaries and not try too much too soon. Do your research, maybe try some couples workshops on tantra or something a little different as an introduction.

Good Luck