How much sexual is hedonism?

My wife and I are not into exchange, however we did enjoy making love on some nude beach when they were deserted - or semi deserted (in California).
I personally enjoy being nude with the sun, water and sand and I have to admit, I am exhibitionist and voyeurist. Love to watch beautiful nude women. But that's the extend of it.
As for my wife, she likes the sensual part of our experience but feel this to be more a private thing. As long as the beach are not crowded, she likes it.
She would probably accept to go to such a place with me but more for my pleasure. But one thing for sure, if she feels like this is a place obviously that exchangist uses for actively finding each others, she might feel threatened.
(I wish it was different and she didn't felt like this, I'm not afraid to say no and not feeling bad at the same time- just ok).

Anyway, I was wondering about how it goes.
What we don't like is traditional naturist places where it felt weird. We much preferred the CO nude beach. Hedonist is not the traditional so, I'm trying to get a feel.
I know it sounds contradictory a bit, what do we want? Well, we are joggling with my fantasm and her limitations.
Any website to read for recommendation?
Thanks in advance for answering this crazy post :-)

My husband and I went for our first trip to Hedo III in August. I wanted something new and different than anything that we had done. Hedo was just that, we had a blast. You can do as little or as much as you like. Exchanging, I am sure takes place, but all you have to do is say not interested and that is fine as well. We definitely aren't into that swapping partners, but that was fine.

I think that your wife would have a good time if she would just go and see how things go.

Thx D & S
That helps
I'm telling myself that I have to plan a trip before the next meteorite crashes on earth.

We have been several times and never had an any preasure ... we have been offered and politely declined, with a thank you but no thank you. Nobody will make you an outcast because you dont want to swap or participate in anything you feel uncomfortable with. Hedo III is just a FUN place that lets you be as free as your comfort levels... go and have fun !!!!

We are not young (he's 49 and she's 45) and we are seriously hoping to get to Hedo3 late November. We love to play with others, be watched and watch! She is ummm curvy (well that's what he tells me!!!) and is very into playing with other girls. Is there a protocol - do you ask to join in or get invited whilst enjoying other activities? I know this is not a related string - but well, I'm nosy!!!! lol ;-)

UK, ok you guys are a couple of old farts LOL were 50 and 52 and still have a great time at Hedo. .. Usually just sitting in the hot tub talking and getting friendly ... and things just progress ...

lol well then, I guess we'll be okay - we like to socialise as well as have sex! lol