We have been together 30 years and my hubby knows I fantasize about two men at the same time based on some of our experiences in the early years. However I love him endlessly and would never hurt his feelings just for a cheap thrill on my part. Thats what I love about Hedo though, there are a number of single men who like to discuss the MFM fantasy; appreciate my sexuality and have obviously indulged themselves but they are very sweet and very respectful and because they know my hubby is not going for it the 3 of us just all end up being friends. The best sex for me is in my imagination anyway.