Desire Cabo - First timer w/ questions

Hey everyone - brand new to the site and I signed up specifically to find out more about desire cabo. My wife and i are thinking about going in May and aren't sure what to expect. We've got a lot of questions and if anyone here can answer them, we'd appreciate it! We're relatively young - low 30's - and neither of us swing or have any desire to swing. We do like the idea of getting naked and the theme nights. About as open as we'd get is some minor play with others during games and such but nothing more. Some of the questions we have are:
- what is the average age? Will there be others our age?
- do most people swing? Will we be a rarity as non-swingers?
- how private is it as far as photography? (we don't want to end up on someone's vacation / picture post)
- do people dress up for dinner and is risque attire acceptable (sheer, no underwear, etc)?
- if our costumes for theme nights (like toga or sheer lingerie) are barely there (and i mean barely) or perfectly sheer, are we going to be too explicit? (this goes for both of us)
- what kind of sexy games are there (twister, etc) and how much touching and/or nudity is involved (some would be fun, too much would not be cool).
- how busy will it be in the middle of May (and is anyone here going at that time)?

I'm not sure what else we may need to know, but any info is great!!

Thanks! MikeHx

Sent you a PM

Hi Mike,

It sound like you have some "general lifestyle" concerns and some "resort specific" questions. We're on our first trip to DLC, but have been to Hedo many times. I'd suggest you jump over to the Hedo board to search for the "general lifestyle" stuff. You will quickly find you have little reason to be concerned. We are a respectful bunch. But please check that forum out - there is a wealth of info there. You will spend many hours reading.

Concerning DLC, I'd suspect it is just like Hedo in the respect that there is no such thing as "too" revealing. There may be some restaurant dress code issues, but theme nights are going to be a free for all. If nothing else, that's how Diane is going to dress, so you won't be alone!

Shoot us a PM if you have any more specific questions.

Hope to see you there.

Thanks for the info - we just booked the trip and plan on having a blast!!

You will most definately have a blast! What dates?

We hope so! I'll send a pm.