Newbies Going in Spring 2017

We are both total newbies. We have a few questions if anyone could help.
1. Is it acceptable to be in a bathing suit for either partner around the pool?
2. How far is the hotel from the pool area?
3. Is it acceptable to go into the play area as a couple and simply watch others but only play with each other?
4. Are most ppl completely shaved all over?
Forgive the random questions, just still a bit nervous about our first trip. We have a few more questions but just want to start with the basics.
Thanks for the help!

Opps, thought it was about Hedo. Guess I am still old school when this forum used to be just Hedo, opps

FYI, this was asked about Caliente not Hedo

opps lol - I deleted my answers since they were about Hedo