We are a laid back all-around fun couple. We are both degreed professionals and due to our jobs, discretion is a must. We prefer quality over quantity. Husband really enjoys watching and doesn't have a problem with just that. Soft Swap is fun also! We like for things to happen rather than plan them. He is sweet as SUGAR and she can be very SPICY! She has a very nice J-LO type of round firm ass (his words).