We are a Scandinavian couple in our early 40s that started with an open relationship. It evolved to swinging and after a year of monogamy we now consider us more of a hotwife/cuckold couple where she is the only one that dates others with hubbys encouragement. We are both very sure on ourselfs and our relationship and our love is greater than ever. But we do not rule out the occasional threesome or foursome if we are at vacation without kids. But usually its only the wife that plays.