Well nrock, you and your wife have nothing to be nervous about that I can promise. Being newbies it all may seem so very differant..but I give it maybe an hour setting at the bar between the nude and prude side when you finally venture down to the nude side after some liquid courage :-). That is how most couples end up..I know we did on our first trip. We both now think...Why did we wait so long before going to the best place in the resort..really..after your first day there you will see what I mean..it's just like going to Walmart except no one is wearing clothes. We do look forward to meeting you both..so please just come on over and say hello..you have our pics.